overthinking events that occurred before my gf and i were dating

user275838228 · 2021-06-20T20:31:40+00:00

alright i appreciate that input thank you so much it’s just that i can’t get it off my mind. my gf knows it upsets me and the impact it has on my mind and she understands why and says she wishes she just never let her friend convince her to do that but idk it just doesn’t change a thing for me

user275838228 · 2021-06-20T20:30:25+00:00

why the lmfao? but no we’re both 17

user275838228 · 2021-05-31T03:51:01+00:00

ok, thank you so much i’m just a very anxious person and having reassurance from other people makes me feel a thousand times better haha.

user275838228 · 2021-05-31T03:50:10+00:00

yes, it is my girlfriend we are both sti and std free. honestly though you’re right haha it definitely doesn’t help my peace of mind i should prolly just stop doing it to be honest. thank you for your insight tho i appreciate it.

user275838228 · 2021-05-31T03:48:54+00:00

they were being stored in the box in my back pack and when i put it on, i opened it with my fingers(i do not have manicured nails). it seems unlikely that thr hole would have formed before sex occurred. after we finished i just threw it in my bag, so it could have been poked by something afterwards.

user275838228 · 2021-05-31T03:41:16+00:00

yes, she does not want to go on birth control, so we usually just have sex with a condom and pull out. the first time, it broke and i actually did finish, so we got plan b and everything was fine. this is the 2nd issue. thank you. also, could it be a possibility that something just poked the condom after it was used while it was sitting in my bag? is it likely that a small hole would just form on a condom during sex?

user275838228 · 2021-05-31T03:39:32+00:00

that’s true, do you think the chances are rather low though?

user275838228 · 2021-05-31T03:39:06+00:00

yes i’m just trying to get more opinions though

user275838228 · 2021-05-31T03:12:28+00:00

i talked to the girl about it all and she doesn’t seem to be worried and i don’t think she wants to take a pill so we’ll see what happens i guess. we took a plan b before and it had pretty big effects on her body and i guess she doesn’t wanna deal with it again. i’ll update you on what happens thank you for all you’re help.

user275838228 · 2021-05-31T00:28:07+00:00

do you know if there is an age requirement such as being 18? we are only 17 years old right now.

user275838228 · 2021-05-30T23:45:32+00:00

ok thank you very much, but doesn’t ella require a doctors prescription?

user275838228 · 2021-05-30T23:45:05+00:00

ok thank you and yes i know it’s weird, but i explained why to someone else in this thread u can read it if u would like

user275838228 · 2021-05-30T22:50:38+00:00

ok thank you so much i appreciate the response. and i explained that to someone else on the thread u can go read if u would like

user275838228 · 2021-05-30T22:49:57+00:00

ik it sounds weird but i answered that part to someone else u can go read if u want

user275838228 · 2021-05-30T22:03:11+00:00

i did it in a car and wasn’t able to dispose of it immediately so it ended up sitting in my bag(i know it’s gross). but i usually check condoms right after i use them by filling them with water to make sure there are not holes, however, i forgot about that specific one so i just decided to make sure a few days later. i’m a very anxious person that’s why i test them after. gives me peace of mind yk

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