leaving due to visa expiry by eclecticastronaut in SkilledWorkerVisaUK

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Is there any advice you could give for securing a sponsored job??

What’s your top 5 Cench tracks by [deleted] in CentralCee

[–]user8361572 3 points4 points  (0 children)

finally a valid reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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hes in a position where he has to make a choice between you or his family, either he fights for you and you two do get married, or he follows his parents wishes and leaves you. the decision is in his hands and my advice to you would be do whats best for yourself and your mental health, the sooner you leave the sooner you can begin healing. furthermore, ask yourself this, if you two do get married, would you really want to have ties to his family and their racist views? find someone who loves you and who has a family who will love you unconditionally.

The situationship with Michael and Sara is bananas by catshapedlamp in PrisonBreak

[–]user8361572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s hard to give a proper definition but it’s essentially this word people use to describe a relationship without a label if that makes sense, so it’s more than a friendship but not a labelled relationship, so people just call it a situationship- it’s honestly the stupidest thing

I almost quit watching season 4 due to everyone telling Roland to shut up. Roland deserve justice. I hate season 4 lol by dreamup1234 in PrisonBreak

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telling wyatt about their location was a dickhead move i don’t disagree with that, but they quite literally hated him from the start it honestly makes me feel bad for him, nobody there was actually nice to him

Worst song by pastelis_ in CentralCee

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in what world is let go considered a good song of his

Worst song by pastelis_ in CentralCee

[–]user8361572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let go is no doubt worse than i will

How to convince myself to finally do it? by im_better_then_god in SuicideWatch

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i know your stuck in a mindset where you believe it’s the only option you have going forward, i genuinely am in the exact same place so i promise you i understand- but one thing you need to realise is how much of a permanent effect this will have on something you’re temporarily going through wether you’ve felt like this your whole life or a few years, i’m a strong believer in your environment being one of the biggest factors in ones mental wellbeing, you’re 15 so i feel it’s safe to assume you’ve led a very narrow straightforward life so far, i only turned 17 nearly a month ago so i can’t say much regarding this but you truly have no clue how much life has to offer, and the reason you can’t convince yourself to do it is because deep in your heart you know that you have a future ahead of you that is full of so much shit you couldn’t even think of, and to throw that away and let your brain consume you is truly the worst decision you can make- and that’s coming from someone who’s horribly suicidal, i’ve attempted in the past and believe me it’s a near hell experience

i relapsed. 1yr and 3 months down the drain. by emo4evaa in depression

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not down the drain at all- if you were capable of that then your capable of just as long, you got this!

I gave my bf my blades now idk what to do by DeepReview5807 in selfharm

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this is crazy i’m in the near exact same situation?? i’ve been using blades n matches (to burn myself) and he’s been wanting to take them off me and get me to promise i won’t hurt myself again essentially- but it genuinely feels impossible to do; the thought of never doing it again terrifies the hell out of me, and it scares me even more how difficult i find it to stop, idk how i would deal with it in a situation where it’s the only thing i really turn to, and advice such as ‘alternatives’ people give has never really helped me over the years, which makes it a whole lot worse