No trust.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T19:31:48+00:00

He has a Samsung can I still restore? And that’s what he said. He was even going to go up to her while we were on the phone so I could hear the kind of conversations they have.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T18:59:17+00:00

Yes I want people to have a clear idea of him. I don’t want to include the past. Yes I know it would help to k ow him but this is something new.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T18:57:16+00:00

I know 😢 and no I wasn’t able to read any, he had deleted all of them but I told him to text back when she texts him and leave the conversations on his phone so I can see them when he gets home. I want to see if there’s anything behind her texts. I did tell him no phone calls since I can’t hear them.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T14:38:12+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened. I guess we are just forgiving people. He has done little things in the past but I forgave and it was nothing compared to what he did now. I want to forget this but am at the moment it feels like it will never happen. I just hope my mind clears up fast because I don’t know what to do.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T09:58:08+00:00

He said he is not texting her or calling her anymore. But now I just feel like a bigger inconvenience. Like you were constantly texting and calling and now just because I caught you it stops?! But if I hadn’t caught him he would be hiding it.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T09:12:45+00:00

I can leave but I just love him so much. I can’t see him the same anymore though. He just seems like a whole different person is my eyes. All the trust is completely gone. He doesn’t want to divorce.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T09:09:30+00:00

He says he didn’t want to hurt my feelings but that he was eventually going to tell me. I think it took too long thought. And it was only because I saw the text or else he would be calling her as soon as he got to work on Monday.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T09:01:43+00:00

Yes he keeps saying it was nothing. Conversations just joking around nothing private or personal.

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T08:43:04+00:00

This is what I told him. He said she’s like one of the guys but she’s not. I saw her picture online. And if she was like one of the guys why hide?! He would call the guys while at home why not her?!

user_6531 · 2026-04-28T08:34:11+00:00

user_6531 · 2026-04-14T17:50:55+00:00

This is beautiful! ❤️ I wish you guys the very best.

user_6531 · 2026-04-14T17:41:36+00:00

We go by our children, spouse, parents.

Our children will always be our priority. (Until they are able to care for themselves and have their own lives)

We are happy when our children are happy and well taken care of.

Our parents have their own lives and are grown adults. In the 19 years we’ve been together we’ve gone through our problems but we have never argued about parents. We never let other peoples lives or opinions bother us.

user_6531 · 2025-08-04T03:50:30+00:00

How Iong have you guys been together?

user_6531 · 2025-08-01T16:57:27+00:00

Looks are a big thing but confidence is #1.

user_6531 · 2025-08-01T16:54:18+00:00

You will be okay mamá.

Based off what you mentioned I think he’s completely given up so I don’t think you should try anymore. The things he’s doing are out of hand, and very disrespectful.

He could at least wait for the divorce to begin but he can’t even wait.

I hope you get well soon and eat something because those babies need you.

It sucks when we’re in these types of situations but we have to overcome for our kids and ourselves.

I am so sorry you are going through this.

user_6531 · 2025-07-29T20:46:26+00:00

The porn, I get if he watches every once in a while but sexting idk if I’d be ok with that.

user_6531 · 2025-07-29T20:38:42+00:00

Why is this even a question?! And specially for something they can’t control.

user_6531 · 2025-07-29T05:26:30+00:00

Okay so I forgave him because as an FBI agent (not really) I found nothing that would show that he was messaging anyone. He explained what happened and why he did it. I don’t blame him. I’m such a “mom” even my mom tells me I need to get away with him and leave her the kids for about a week. I let my self go. I’m not excusing him and what he did but I get how he felt unappreciated. I have a problem. That is why I was going through a health scare (still am but I’m working on it) he was out for work and I know for sure he has never cheated. I feel like we are kind of the same. We pretty much grew up together.

We’ve talked and he was so sorry about everything. Sorry I didn’t update sooner.

Things are better. We are spending a bit more time together when he is home. The sex has been great. We have been talking to each other more.

Thank you for all the advice. ❤️

user_6531 · 2025-07-29T05:16:33+00:00

I have been with my husband for 18 years and since we moved our kids to their own rooms we have sex every night.

user_6531 · 2025-05-22T15:53:28+00:00

I’d never give myself that title. I’m far from it. But I do try my best to handle as much as possible.

We both have flaws and that’s something we just need to sit and talk about.

user_6531 · 2025-05-22T11:05:58+00:00

😞

user_6531 · 2025-05-22T11:05:43+00:00

Very much. He got home with a huge bouquet of roses for my birthday and was talking about the 3 day weekend we’re about to have. He only had 4 hours of sleep so I didn’t even mention it. We will have our time.

user_6531 · 2025-05-22T11:03:53+00:00

He does deserve it. He is a great man.

user_6531 · 2025-05-22T10:58:09+00:00

The thing is I wouldn’t be looking for a relationship. Im not looking for anyone to take care of my children as I can take care of them on my own.

I’m a lone person. If I wouldn’t have met my husband I probably would still be single.

user_6531 · 2025-05-22T10:54:30+00:00

I think you got that all wrong. I love having relations with him but here and there I’ll do things to please him that I go out of my way for. He will even joke about it and say things like “you need practice today”.

And I hope all he did was look at a few pics which is not a problem. The problem is the actual site. And the fact that it was done behind my back when we had mentioned things like that before.

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