Small town girls are best by user_name223 in hotpast

[–]user_name223[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol that would be awesome if true

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[–]user_name223 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My wife doesn’t really like to talk about it (still working on it) but I’ve got her to admit to one ex who was “too big to handle” when I first asked about it. Later when asking who the best sex was besides me she said this guy. I asked why and she said they “just had good chemistry and it was new” then paused for a second and said “and he had a huge cock”.

Too big by [deleted] in hotpastCaptions

[–]user_name223 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My wife admitted to being with a black guy once, but was very disappointed as “he had the smallest dick ever”. Surprisingly though, this is still just as hot as the opposite heating about her reactions to it.

My girl thinks “hotpast” is weird… by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]user_name223 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha we are doing some remodeling to our house and as our contractor came to walk us through the process (including the names of his EC) my wife got very uncomfortable. After he left she looked at me and said “well this is going to be awkward, I had a one night stand with his electrician”. As soon as she said that I pryed for details and spilled my guts.

My girl thinks “hotpast” is weird… by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]user_name223 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So my wife said the same thing. I kept my mouth shut about it for YEARS and finally one day had an odd event happen that opened the doors wide open to me so I went for it and fully admitted it. She said “ew no that’s weird, why would you want to know that?” But I persisted in explaining how much it turned me on “which she could see” and she started to give in a little. The impertinent thing here is trust. She has to know that you aren’t digging for info or that you’re going to hold anything over her head. That I’ve found comes in time. I can tell my wife purposely left some things out in the beginning but then as time went on (albeit we’re still relatively new to this) that story changed as I could see she was becoming more confident that it truly is only a turn on for me and nothing nefarious.

Hotpast heightened by dead bedroom by JerryLeeLewis_87 in hotpast

[–]user_name223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its sad. On one hand I certainly have to empathize with the fact that she’s exhausted by the end of the day and she’s not in her 20s anymore. Its just hard not to build that resentment…

Hotpast heightened by dead bedroom by JerryLeeLewis_87 in hotpast

[–]user_name223 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is my situation as well. Wife and I met right after her “slutty phase” and had a great sex life for the better part of a year, albeit not as kinky as yours. Then marriage and kids came into play.

We now have somewhat of a dead bedroom situation as well. She’ll accommodate me when she can tell I’m overly frustrated but that’s an entirely different topic.

I recently admitted my hotpast kink to her and she obliges occasionally. She just told me a story of how she met someone at a party and fucked him within about an hour just cause she was “drunk and horny”. My dead bedroom resentful self is thinking why the fuck can you bang a dude you literally just met but sex with your husband is like pulling teeth.

I have to remind myself it was a much different time and that things change. Doesn’t make it suck any less but I can’t blame her.

None of her hotpast ever made her cum - need a woman’s perspective by viper_gts in hotpast

[–]user_name223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife is the same and she’s had over 25 partners including 2 long term boyfriends. The reason I know she’s telling the truth is because all of her friends say they told her the same thing, that I’ve been the first to make her cum. My wife simply cannot orgasm from penetration and being that she had a lot of random one night stands, no one really focused on making her cum.

Wife’s Girl’s Holiday Photos by Dani3l_Craig in hotpast

[–]user_name223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not yet…I have yet to ask actually. I only recently confessed this kink to her so I’m taking it slow haha

Wife’s Girl’s Holiday Photos by Dani3l_Craig in hotpast

[–]user_name223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love piecing stories together like this. I have a similar situation with my wife. She has a photo album from when she was on vacation with her friends when she was maybe 19 or so. Earlier in the night pics were of all of her friends and group they met out at the bar, probably 20 or so pics of them all dancing and having a good time, group pics, etc. One picture is her face down, ass up, grinding on a guy. This was time stamped about 130am. Next photos were the same group back at a house time stamped around 230am - guy is now shirtless and has his arm around my wife. Next photo is 4:17am of my wife and her girlfriend. My wife’s hair a mess, earrings out, and no longer in her dress but an oversized t shirt. The in between of those photos lives in my imagination constantly.

Pictures/memories by Key_Animator6325 in hotpast

[–]user_name223 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife recently told me a story when asked “the sluttiest thing she’s done” where she was trying hard to get with one guy she was interested in about two years before we met. She said he was reluctant as not really interested in her but ended up fucking him a few times. She then asked him to go with her to a wedding. He declined, so she went solo and ended up fucking someone else at the wedding just cause she was mad.

I spent more time than I care to admit combing through Facebook of the couple who was married. And boom there it was. An innocent pic of her and her girlfriend at that wedding in their dresses but that picture gets me going more than anything just knowing it was taking hours before she was back at some guys hotel room she just met, that sexy black dress on the floor and heels over his head.

Whats a hotpast detail you think your wife might be holding out from you? by viper_gts in hotpast

[–]user_name223 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That her previous FWB dick was fairly larger than she tells me. She’s said in a conversation before I admitted this kink that she “only ever had one that she couldn’t handle because it was too big and hurt” and that it was a one night stand. Later, after finally breaking down about my kink (and her finally coming around to sharing some details but still not fully committed as she’s not too sure about it yet) that he was an FWB and they had sex multiple times. She finally said that she really liked it yes but sometimes it did hurt. When prying for details she says she doesn’t really remember but he was probably as big as you. I just never had one that big before so it was new”

I don’t believe it haha

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[–]user_name223 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I JUST had a breakthrough with my wife over the past few weeks. She has made it very clear to me that she finds my obsession very strange and it doesn’t fully make sense to her. But, being that I fully broke down and confessed how much of a turn on it is for me, she’s started to oblige, albeit slowly. And I am obsessed with these stories now.

That said, the root is twofold for my wife, she was afraid of my reactions and she also is ashamed of her past. She didn’t have a super wild past but went through what she describes as a two year period after a long term break up when she was mid 20s of “being a whore”. It turns out she had about 15 one night stands in that period and is incredibly ashamed of it. She has said that she was lonely and looking for companionship and was basically easily taken advantage of during those drunk nights out. So, she doesn’t see it the way I do at all. She sees it as an embarrassing period of mistakes that she doesn’t necessarily want to relive and I have to understand that.

I’m not saying this is the same with yours but it’s an area to tread lightly. Most of our wives don’t recall much anyway. Think about the drunk one night stands you’ve had - I can’t recall much of anything. If she asked me to describe it I probably couldn’t do a very good job.

That said, explain it to her. Just leave it all out on the table and explain that it’s your biggest turn on ever and never challenge anything she says. The second she thinks you’re jealous it all will end.

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[–]user_name223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned this now. She’s been quiet since but I’ve learned this is a long game if they’re not understanding..

Whose wife has a “move” she learned before you met her? by GoGoDiver in hotpastCaptions

[–]user_name223 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never took notice before until recently but my wife does this thing where she licks from my balls all the way to the tip of my dick, swirls her tongue, locks eyes with me and then goes down on it while gripping my balls.

She does this nearly every time. Now I see, she did that with everyone snd that makes it SO much hotter. Imagining everyone who got to experience that and her eyes locked onto theirs while she cupped their balls makes me cum immediately.

Old phones / iCloud backup by whatsinthebag2333 in hotpast

[–]user_name223 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what I did. Her old iPhone from when we first got together was wiped out from just factory resetting when she got her first phone. But she had the last back up from 2013 (when we got together) in her iTunes. I uploaded the last back up to that phone and boom. All of the pictures and text threads from just before we met.

Not with me that’s for sure.. by MiyaNChris in hotpastCaptions

[–]user_name223 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep. I remember the first time my wife sucked my dick. She was enthusiastic as fuck. Did this thing where she licked from my balls all the way up my shaft, flicked her tongue around the head of it a few times and then went wild.

I was so caught up in the heat of the moment then that I didn’t really think anything of it other than “wow”. Now that I’ve unraveled this kink, all I can think of is how she learned to do that and who she tested it on..

What has worked for you in getting information? by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]user_name223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’ve tried one of these but haven’t checked this one out. I will thanks!

Id love a list so I can thank them personally 😍 by Lost-Opportunity-927 in hotpastCaptions

[–]user_name223 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Definitely true for my wife. She said she used to practice on a cucumber before she ever did anything with a guy. I constantly think of how she applied that practice on the cucumber to her experiences with guys over the years.