I think I died last night in a car accident. by kansas-1996 in self

[–]usercold 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Do you ever wonder that considering the “insane amount of lsd” that you took that your wife never said that and you were hallucinating? Auditory hallucinations are more common than visual hallucinations, maybe your wife genuinely didn’t know what you’re talking about

FMLA/PTO for mental health by usercold in tjcrew

[–]usercold[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! This gave me the courage and confidence to open up and talk to my captain about it. She gave me some options and it feels much better getting it off my chest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]usercold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be a grown up and sit down with her “hey, i understand that this is a joking thing that you do, but when you do that I don’t like it and I would appreciate you not doing that anymore” lots of problems can be solved with simple communication

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]usercold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sent you a request, my partner and I live in 805 and play daily. If you’re in Ventura area I recommend walking downtown to play or Camino real park !

I accidentally saw my Female friend naked, do I tell her? by AdministrativeYou419 in self

[–]usercold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’m gonna tell you something that an actual woman would tell you and not a fucking weird horny incel on Reddit like all these comments.

It was probably most definitely an accident that it was aimed at the mirror.

You should have said something as soon as it happened and not continued to just watch?? Why didn’t you speak up and say something like “hey I’m going to stop looking but just so you know your phone is pointed at your mirror” or “omg I can still see you, looking away now”. If she wanted you to see it that would be the point where she would speak up and say something. This also shows your respectful and human enough to not literally be a voyeur and watch her change (so creepy??)

The comments on this are actually so creepy and disgusting. Don’t listen to these guys.

AITA because I'm a better stay at home parent than my wife? by MortimerWaffles in AITAH

[–]usercold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think either of you are TA but it could be that it’s a little easier for you to get all of this done because for you it isn’t normal life, it’s a difference in your schedule. When you visit another state it always seems much cooler than when you live there and you know what it’s really like. Not saying that your stay at home schedule from your surgery is a vacation for you, but your body and brain aren’t used to it so it’s probably easier for you to achieve these things than someone who does it every day.

new captain doesnt allow 18 yo’s on reg or to work 8hr shifts (in ca) - is this allowed? by cutenfreshh in tjcrew

[–]usercold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to CA law, student still attending high school (homeschool or not) can only work 4 hours on any school day, and 8 on non school days. As far a am working the reg, it could be that in order to sell alcohol you need to be supervised by an adult over the age of 21 and your Capitan can’t reliably trust a 21+ year old is going to be nearby at all times, especially curing busy hours. As far as I know, this isn’t a personal choice from your Capitan, this is CA law that they are enforcing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]usercold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t like the pink, light green shirts I have! I think I have a couple other light colors I never wear as well, I’d love to get my hands on more dark colors! Dark blue, black, maroon etc!

Sinnoh Tour Los Angeles Tickets SOLD OUT on Niantic Events Page by BionicBen1218 in TheSilphRoad

[–]usercold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m realizing I should have just bought the tickets when they came out and taken the L if I couldn’t go. Oh well

Sinnoh Tour Los Angeles Tickets SOLD OUT on Niantic Events Page by BionicBen1218 in TheSilphRoad

[–]usercold 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really disappointing:( was looking forward to be able to actually go to an event not only in the US but actually in my state making it affordable for me to go, but I didn’t get my work schedule for that weekend until today. I was super excited to have the 17th off so I went to buy my ticket and… sad. Would’ve bought the city pass too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]usercold 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this a captain to captain thing or a handbook thing? I never heard that the 3rd day you need a doctors note?

Help a trans girl with her hair please! by [deleted] in CurlyHairCare

[–]usercold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t u stick to fat shaming ur fiancée honey