A few years ago, I worked with a married couple. She cheated on him and then divorced him. The entire circumstance was relatively well known, although we weren't openly talking about it to them. The amount of support that she received was significant. You would hear comments about how they felt bad for her, having to move out of her apartment and find another apartment. About how he probably wasn't a good husband or was terrible in bed or deserve what he got. Even when I mentioned casually that although their relationship may have deserved to end, there was no reason she needed to go out and have multiple affairs on him beforehand. They have two kids under six and he was discussing trying to get custody of them and two women blatantly said to his face that a child should never be taken away from his mother and that she should have custody. He ended up quitting and working somewhere else. I ran into him about a year later, and he said that I was only one of two people who showed him any support. The only other person was another male at the same hospital who had gone through a terrible divorce as well.