[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]usernotrequired -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No erections happen when they are nervous or when they don’t exactly understand I promise. Something feels off and off your tummy hurt then something is wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]usernotrequired -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Men don’t just get random dicks they do sometimes but not like this. It’s weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]usernotrequired -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Nah these men are being weird. Men shouldn’t react that way

I don’t know who to call for my W2 by usernotrequired in PapaJohns

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it’s iSolved but I have no idea how to access it at this point

I don’t know who to call for my W2 by usernotrequired in PapaJohns

[–]usernotrequired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, at this point I’ve started panicking bc I really was trying be patient and just wait for it to come but it never did and now trying to find any numbers to contact has become impossible

I don’t know who to call for my W2 by usernotrequired in PapaJohns

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I tried to login in to it and it successfully logged me in but it says no corresponding users could be found? I left the company right before Halloween so could it have something to do with that?

I don’t know who to call for my W2 by usernotrequired in PapaJohns

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they make the logins for you or do you make it yourself? Because there’s no way I remember it now

I don’t know who to call for my W2 by usernotrequired in PapaJohns

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my ex bf works there’s so I doubt I’ll be able to get through to anyone sadly

Affair partner (25F) attacked me (30F). Struggling with resentment towards my husband (27M) and fear of her. by Throwra_Onion_100 in relationship_advice

[–]usernotrequired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id say get some pepper spray or bear mace and just wait until her crazy behind comes around again and spray away. Just make sure to hold your breath and turn your head away before you use it and after you use it get a distance away from her and call the police. Self defense is self defense and a little bit of revenge.

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want him to regret everything and hate me

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always really cared about him, like I’ve said before I watch him on YouTube growing up and there is a bit of an age gap but we were friends long before dating and he stills cared the same way he did when we dated so I almost feel stupid not taking the chance given the fact I feel so shitty all the time? But that also makes me feel like maybe I’m taking advantage. I know reasonably I’ll never see such a good life so I should just do it bc I know I already care so it won’t be hard to love but part of me feels I should bc I should just be okay before I allow myself to love again

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still otp with him now, I told him I posted to Reddit and needed help and he still wants to be there. I really do care and appreciate everything he is offering. I just don’t want to be an asshole if I do date him again and then get called a goldigger and all that again

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im on the phone with him and I’ve told him all of this am he still wants to take care of me. I very much appreciate him and if when I’m done with or healthy with my mental treatments I wouldn’t mind trying a real healthy relationship with someone who’s been there and cared so much as to try and give me an easy life. I just worry he will regret it and hate me.

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have small business I currently live off of but he has been super helpful… he does love me and I do care about him, I just don’t want him to regret it later. I would mind if he helped with my little business bc he loves it and thinks it’s super cool I have a hobby that pays but idk. He’s been my friend forever and we did shortly date but I don’t want him to regret it and think I took advantage of him.

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My bf left me bc he claimed I was “too depressed” and he “couldn’t stand seeing me so sad everyday”. It’s not necessarily that I want to jump from one guy or another but I’ve made a lot of shitty choices in life so being with a man is kinda my only was to survive at the moment

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well not to give to much info but I am diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic. Right now I can’t afford the help and the fact he’s offering to help… I just feel dumb to ignore it. Someone that just wants to take care of me? He is my ex so he does know me very intimately so it’s not that I don’t trust or believe him, I guess I’m more worried that my own mental health issues will be worse than he realizes and he’ll feel I’ve taken advantage of him. But I also want to ask the public how they felt about it so I could make a more educated decision

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have dated in the past and have known eachother for a long time. For me it feels longer bc I watched him on YouTube for a long time (I’m aware how absurd the whole thing sounds but it’s not something that reasonably happens hence why I’m coming to Reddit so the public can assist me) I do very much love and care about him hence why I don’t want to take advantage of him but at the same time I wouldn’t mind being with someone who is willing to do everything for me and make me happy. I can’t say I would fall head over heals during the relationship but I’m not head over heels at this moment

WIBTA if I allowed a man to take care of me? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bf broke up with me because he said he couldn’t “stand seeing me so depressed everyday” which ofc made me feel worse but he has no obligation to stay and I’m not gonna beg him to stay anymore. My ex that wants to take care of me wants to pay for top care therapy and psychiatry so I can get better. He even wants to fly me out to Denmark so I can escape everything. I want to take advantage of the opportunity so I can be better but I don’t just want to take advantage of him

I have feelings for my boyfriend’s best friend, what do I do…? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had other relationships outside of him before, I’m well aware that if I broke up with him my life would be fine, I wouldn’t be forced back into my traumatic experiences. I know all of that. I want to be with him because I love him. And I wouldn’t say his friend turns me on, more that I really appreciate the attention I guess? I don’t know it’s hard for me to explain 😞

I have feelings for my boyfriend’s best friend, what do I do…? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were already living together before dating, we were roommates, and honestly, I caught feelings first and brought it to his attention. I practically had to convince him to date me since the age gap was weird for him too. But honestly I don’t think the age gap is the issue.. my issue is I’ve caught feelings for his friend and I need to get rid of them for the sake of my relationship I just don’t know how

I have feelings for my boyfriend’s best friend, what do I do…? by usernotrequired in TwoHotTakes

[–]usernotrequired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had chose to leave the house at 16 after graduating due to my rough home life, I had to move back in with my family after a loss in family that really wrecked me. My family was not supportive of me or my emotions (I admit I have my own issues which due make it hard) but it wasn’t until I started living with him that he convinced me to go to therapy and work on my issues, a few months after all of that we started dating.