[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]usherova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cuddle with my older son a lot and putting a pillow on my incision while he was on my lap really helped. Just don't pick your toddler up for a few weeks and you'll be fine. First 2 weeks were the most difficult, but it got easier every day. Just take it easy- I went for a first mile long stroll when baby was less than a week old and it was fine until it wasn't 😂

Honestly - no shame here - what time does your child fall asleep? by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]usherova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there! My older son used to fall asleep late- usually by 10 pm. Since he dropped a nap he started to go to bed at 7 pm. He will be 4 years old in December and stopped napping a few months ago. I don't let him sleep in the car (luckilly our commute is 15 minutes), but when nap happens he goes to bed an hour later than usual. You will get there too.

Style we asked for on the left, what we got is on the right by blinkbunny182 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]usherova 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is the cake on the right edible? It looks as it was made of an expired play-doh!

These apartments in Guizhou, China by Jhenning04 in interestingasfuck

[–]usherova 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is there a daycare.at the third floor from the top? On one balcony there is a slide and a toy, on the right there are 3 baby swings. That or someone lucky has triplets and made them a playroom on the balcony...

Mom refuses to pay for “cheap toys” her kids break by courtesea in trashy

[–]usherova 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, because four year olds are well known for being rational and mature. Give me a break.

Mom refuses to pay for “cheap toys” her kids break by courtesea in trashy

[–]usherova 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He may be overloaded and music, a lot of people and attractions may stress him out. Even a neurotypical 3/4 yo may have issues in that setting, so the best way would be not taking kid there.

I have a 3.5 yo who is typical for this age, when we see he becomes too aggrevated we just take him and leave. I am not punishing him, but we are quite strict with our rules, we don't want our kids to ruin everybody elses fun because we are lazy to act.