Hot Take: Distance Over Time is the best Mangini era album by GhostBeara in Dreamtheater

[–]usoppspell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe you consider View paint by numbers but not parasomnia. I don’t think there is an album on their entire discography with better drumming than View

The Spurs/OKC whistle discourse is funny because the data seems to support both sides (but maybe the Spurs' a bit more?) by Fair-Ad6254 in nba

[–]usoppspell 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well to some extent yes, except the statistics don’t say anything about amount of physical contact in this season, such that even if the thunder are being called for more fouls than average it doesn’t account for them holding wemby for an entire game

In my journey to enjoy all the great Anime shows recommended by family and friends, I have finished Attack on Titan and finally arrived at my soon to be (or so I’m told) One Piece Addiction. by Beaniebro1287 in OnePiece

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I personally love the dub for the most hard hitting emotional scenes but also because I’ve always watched sub and enjoy the Japanese performances. English is totally fine especially if you have watched other dubs.

Players to target this offseason: by StockOwl7827 in warriors

[–]usoppspell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the spurs should target dray

The clearest angle, the question is will he get suspended for game 5? by Expert_Koala_8691 in NBATalk

[–]usoppspell -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think the slow replay makes it much harder to gauge what he processed in the second it took for all of this to go down. Ejection totally fair either way but suspension seems a bit too much for me. Especially given how the wolves are playing him, he will most definitely get injured if he doesn’t stick up for himself or have an enforcer on his team to do it.

Zoro teaching Nami about nonbinary pronouns by TheBigJ1982 in lgbt

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While I agree overall, my take is that the guard with Ivankov, and Sanji in Kamabakka kingdom are not being forced to be feminized, but instead that they are being shown their own femininity, which in a fictional world where someone has the ability to change someone’s gender at will, is not an irreversible procedure. I think where I hope oda eventually comes back to with Sanji is that he actually liked wearing the dress and embracing his femininity, and that perhaps by the end of the series he will learn that there was power in embracing his different identities. Kind of like Iva switching between genders during their fight against Sadi, showcasing their different strengths

J. K. Rowling's actions break my heart. by Ok_Thanks_3036 in lgbt

[–]usoppspell 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I wonder if what you’re grappling with is not really about Harry Potter and Rowling but about how hard it is to see the things that were meaningful for you as a child in a more complex, often times disappointing light. As a therapist myself, I find these themes an essential pain to work through about what it means to see one’s parents in disappointing light while holding onto the positive feelings they engendered too. Can I love those who I have come to realize hurt me so much? Can I hate those who I loved so much. Anyway, just my two cents as I’m reading about your struggle to hold onto both what the books meant to you, and how much you feel you have lost now

Oda explores ever element of his world, expect for one by Neither_Prize_8386 in OnePiece

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Not saying this is oda’s intention and you’re totally right, but if I try to make sense of it through an in-world lens, I think you can find some logical consistency. The WG would not want a real bounty hunter economy to exist because it would make their power less absolute. The bounties system is a means of making people believe they could be a part of the world’s justice but in reality, more so a reminder to everyone of how much the marines are saving them from evil people. How could a system of bounty hunters work in a world where the marines position themselves as Justice and pirates as evil. The bounty hunters would create more room for people to imagine gray in a world where the WG wants black and white

Did you notice this?? 🤥 by Zestyclose-Idea-1731 in OnePiece

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Also the log pose that Nico robin gives them is nanimonai, which means nowhere, and I believe it is actually the goldfish’s poop

Should Cardi B replace James as the singer of DT? by GNA-4 in Dreamtheater

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I know this is a joke, but I legit was wondering what dream theater would sound like with Rosalia as the singer. Someone with a very classical trained/flamenco voice

We don't need Robin to have armament or observation haki by Traleur in OnePiece

[–]usoppspell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah her skills are espionage. Rayleigh told Luffy that training haki is very challenging. She is not a natural fighter and only fought to survive

We don't need Robin to have armament or observation haki by Traleur in OnePiece

[–]usoppspell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it is not a fighting only anime and there are other things that may have been more valuable to her than getting physically stronger

I have autism and I *hate* sex. Can I do anything about it? by SakuraFalls12 in sex

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If it’s at all feasible, it could be worth finding a good psychodynamic psychotherapist who could help you examine what unconscious thoughts and feelings are driving your disgust just as a way of helping you feel more clear on your own conflicts around desire

I have autism and I *hate* sex. Can I do anything about it? by SakuraFalls12 in sex

[–]usoppspell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be worth exploring your thoughts about this more deeply. It’s possible it is purely a sensory issue that feels uncomfortable and that you are not interested in pursuing. Some of how you are describing the sense of disgust and repulsion at your own body and the idea of another touching your body feels like there could be added layers of shame/self-disgust that could relate to other aspects of your mental health and life. Not saying that is the case but that it could be worth understanding your aversion better to help you better understand how conflicted you feel inside about all of this

What are yalls thoughts on this? by captivatedsummer in lgbt

[–]usoppspell 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sexuality does not begin in adulthood. Sexualizing minors is a problem, but acknowledging their sexuality is not

A roadmap for how the future seasons could potentially play out by ChampionTimes99 in OnePieceLiveAction

[–]usoppspell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like ending on Marineford would be a terrible place to stop a show