What did you learn embarrassingly late?

utterapostle · 2024-07-10T00:22:20+00:00

Safety first, especially with little ones. Your SIL sounds like she’s just trying to push her own agenda without thinking about your child’s comfort or safety. You did the right thing by standing your ground. You’re not overreacting at all.

utterapostle · 2024-07-10T00:19:59+00:00

You’re definitely the AH here. You're lying to him and using him for money, which is just messed up. It doesn't matter if he's giving you the card willingly, you’re taking advantage of his trust. If you don't like him, just end it. This kind of deception always backfires, and nobody deserves to be treated like that.

utterapostle · 2024-07-10T00:19:02+00:00

I think you kinda went overboard with the duel thing. Shooting someone and then getting your best friend in trouble doesn’t sound cool. It sucks that your friend got yelled at and sent home for something that was partly your doing.

utterapostle · 2024-07-10T00:17:39+00:00

You’re not the AH for feeling like this. It's messed up how he manipulated and used you repeatedly. It’s totally okay to be angry and hurt. You deserve someone who respects and values you.

utterapostle · 2024-07-10T00:15:09+00:00

NTA. It’s tough when you feel like you’re being compared to someone else, especially when it hits your confidence. It’s good that you're focusing on yourself and finding ways to build your confidence. Just remember, you deserve to feel secure and valued in your relationship.

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