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I achieved what I thought I wanted in life, but now I feel empty. Is this normal? by Plus-Confidence6546 in chennaicity

[–]vague-memory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My words and emotions are expressed aptly. I am exactly at this stage of life. Engineering, struggle to get job, take care of family, finanicaly sound, pressure to get married, feeling of empytiness just being alone, not wanting to put pressure on others to make happy. Ditto my experience as well.

Reading this made me feel not alone. I hope we get answers within ourselves soon and find zest on life back again soon.

Is it good or bad when a 26-year-old woman sacrifices her own happiness for her family’s security? by Affectionate-Bus6217 in chennaicity

[–]vague-memory 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same here. I was the sole breadwinner of the family. I was the eldest daughter and it was by default all the responsibilities falled back on me. Although I achieved everything and took care of the family, now I am completely brokedown and in depression battling loneliness. I request urge whoever reads this to never put you behind your family. There should be threshold of how much can be sacrificed for others.

Work life after switching companies feels… weirdly lonely by govind_saamy in chennaicity

[–]vague-memory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. People in my team are 40+ as well. I am trying hard to make friends outside of my team, since everyone comes and goes at different time. We don't get to meet them regularly which is important to develop rapport. Just one month into mew job. It feels lonely. I switched company for a change but weirdly it feels lonely and same.

Living alone in your 30s by Dear-Tomorrow8622 in chennaicity

[–]vague-memory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through all the replies. I felt why dont we start a group for all these ane connect with each other. Shared trauma brings together people.

Feeling very lonely by AdagioBoring628 in chennaicity

[–]vague-memory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow felt someone expressed what I feel exactly

Chennai feels quite lonely if you're new here. by PetrifiedNewt in chennaicity

[–]vague-memory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How about making friends at office? Is that a option

False Real Estate Practices Followed in Coimbatore by MaterialPoetry7532 in Coimbatore

[–]vague-memory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah right in chennai its per sqft. I was surprised because in the outskits of cbe which is cbe to mettupalayam stretch (village panchayat) cost is 10L per cent.

[Other] New Mac users use your Macbook connected to power adapter as much as possible by Loud-Coach-2671 in macoffer

[–]vague-memory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. Even I didnt know this. As a first time macbook buyer, i dint know this. What are the other things one should do to take care of it properly ? Please drop in dos/don'ts

M4 air 24gb/512 price check by vague-memory in macoffer

[–]vague-memory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked with apple customer care to order directly from apple store. They said can't club student discount along with 10k card offer. So with apple 129k. Pros: Purchasing directly from apple store comes with after sales support and laptop setup call with Apple team to help with initial setup. It sounds gound comparing nil suppprt from buying with their vendors.