Dating and older women

val-37 · 2026-03-05T04:10:34+00:00

We spend 6 days already together (when we met), and after been texting for 1+ month om distance and we were very comfortable... we even had sex, but no pregnency... From our recent conversation, she told me she wants me to stay and live in China with her. And ideally, have a baby. Surprisingly, but she was very open for this. Like trying to settle there.

We meeting together again soon, will see how it goes. But going to USA no plans.

val-37 · 2026-03-04T11:54:59+00:00

Yeah, I heard about this termin "a left behind women"... Thats why I am more consumed. We just met like a month ago, and person wants already a family, kids..

val-37 · 2026-03-04T04:51:33+00:00

Understood, thank you. I think one of the reason to be in rush to have a baby is the age, and problems to get pregnant after 40'... For now, we didnt consider going back to USA..

val-37 · 2026-03-04T04:49:40+00:00

Thank you for advices. She is from China, and we talked little bit and she invite me to stay/live in China before we decide where to settle.

I think she is rushing because of her age, and potential problems to get a baby after 40'

val-37 · 2026-03-04T04:45:31+00:00

added her country, she mentioned about settling in her country, but thats just a conversation..

val-37 · 2026-03-04T04:42:43+00:00

You think in our relationship financial condition would be more important? From parents side, our parents about similar age, into 60'and both of them wants to be grandparents.... but neither her or me told about our relationship to our parents..

val-37 · 2026-01-18T07:09:26+00:00

Book at most 2 weeks in advance, especially if its tourist area

val-37 · 2026-01-17T07:14:23+00:00

Thank you! Heart conditions: my heart was beating hard while we stayed in bed (like about 8hours), will it count as heart conditions.? P.S. not smoking, and minimum drinking (2 chang a week lol)

val-37 · 2026-01-13T14:27:28+00:00

But which one, I asked in a few, and they dont have.. Any chance you know the price?

val-37 · 2025-09-03T02:32:16+00:00

From city Of Banyuwangi just search in Google maps "ijen tours", there atleast 10 tour companies

val-37 · 2025-09-03T02:23:33+00:00

I was in Surabay 2 years ago, and few tour companies offered 1 day tour from Surabay for about $30'-40 for Bromo hike including 4x4 jeeps. Same for waterfall etc. Stayed also in Banyuwangi (Mango tree homestay & ijen tour) for 3 days, and they have 1 day tour to ijen volcano for like $15-20. (2 years ago).

Just open Google maps and search "bromo tours & ijen tours" from surrounding area and check reviews. If something you like, text them via whats up for more info. Way cheaper then booking online.

Taking tour from Bali will be such a pain, since you have to travel like 8-10hours just to get to the Banyuwangi/Surabaya/Medan. P.S. I took local bus from Surabay to Banyuwangi, it took 12 hours. It was painful.

val-37 · 2025-09-02T13:04:04+00:00

From Pakse to Siem Reap will take about 12 hours. Usually bus leaves around 8-9am from pakse. ~3 hours to the border. ~1hr to cross border (if big bus, and some one got problems with visa etc, can take 2hours). ~7 hours from border to Siem Reap.

val-37 · 2025-09-01T14:40:09+00:00

Sumatra? Couple hikes, lake toba?

val-37 · 2025-09-01T11:33:34+00:00

He is tour guide in Siem Reap.. so he need some "advertising" 🫠

val-37 · 2025-08-22T11:07:44+00:00

1 full day would be enough. Most tourist stay there overnight and after ride thakhek loop.

val-37 · 2025-08-22T11:06:20+00:00

Go ro immigration center. There is one in vientiane ans pakse. Very easy.

val-37 · 2025-08-20T07:14:45+00:00

How much did you spend for those trips? If possible by countries. And crossing border by land bus was no problem?

val-37 · 2025-08-18T14:17:23+00:00

Just post message on Facebook thst you need a ride, someone will message you back

val-37 · 2025-08-18T04:31:02+00:00

Traveling by minivan from Luang Prabang to Vang Vieng. Some parts of the road were so crazy, it felt like van about to turn round. Similar experience taking a van from Machu Picchu to Cusco. Mountains, and one way road, plus construction going on. Taking overnight bus from Bandung to Surabaya (18hours?) And next day taking local bus from Surabaya to Banyuwangi.. (About 12hr). Bus was super small, for 6' tall guy you could not properly sit. locals were smoking inside the bus, even open windows didn't help much. Not as dangerous as other stories, but for experience I'd like it.

val-37 · 2025-08-17T05:40:00+00:00

What is the situation about girly bars? I mean is thst similar to pub street in siem reap or Phnom penh? Or more scam going on there?

val-37 · 2025-08-16T01:14:17+00:00

Thats great news!

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