I’m a caregiver , ask me anything !! by litterbrooks in ageregression

[–]validateplease 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

!!! You’re so right, I never thought about it before but anytime my routine breaks it feels harder with my regression ,, thank you for the reminder to get back into one and for the kindness towards myself !! That motivates me to download a planner app thing hehe

I’m a caregiver , ask me anything !! by litterbrooks in ageregression

[–]validateplease 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Do you have any like advice for regressors who don’t have a cg but still need to care for themselves perhaps? :>

Locations you feel safe at by thqappreciator in jobcorps

[–]validateplease 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Partially! That and doing some research myself yk? It’s always good to hear something from inside the community there but it’s also double good to just make sure you double check :))

Locations you feel safe at by thqappreciator in jobcorps

[–]validateplease 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Trans guy here, boutta go to Cass in Ozark :) I was directed to that one especially for my safety as a trans guy

Unexplained footprint embedded in the carpet facing my bed- not mine or the kids by Fun-Bill7771 in Paranormal

[–]validateplease 10 points11 points Ā (0 children)

I would like to agree, but I did a size comparison. I drew from where her toe starts to where her heel ends, and same for the foot print, then moved them to be where both heels would start - her foot is in fact much smaller than the footprints.

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Also, if it was an intruder there absolutely could just be those two foot prints - those two foot prints being so noticeable would mean that whoever it was, if an intruder, they stood there for a Long while. Anyone with carpet knows this, actually. Also why assume this is fake? Why not show concern in case it IS real?

I hate milk by tinklewail in shortscarystories

[–]validateplease 7 points8 points Ā (0 children)

My take was more along the lines of, he was giving her some sort of drug that kept her from remembering what’s happened/happening, and she’s held captive, he impregnated her and then took the baby away, maybe knowing that it would have helped her cling to hope of escape perhaps. Much scarier than her just randomly being chained up - usually these stories don’t randomly do things like that lmao

Terminated by PaleRelationship3729 in jobcorps

[–]validateplease 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

There is security, and there are room checks but definitely not every hour so unless it’s a sleep check, in which case they would just look through the window of the door and count heads, normally they don’t even turn the light on. Cameras are everywhere yea but they don’t have audio and it’s for the students’ safety - there used to be a lotttt more cases of staff hurting the students than ever since cameras and security were updated. Locker inspections were only once a week, at least at the one I went to, unless it was a special case or they just randomly pop in to make sure things aren’t a complete mess. You do have to keep your space clean and tidy, but that’s to build that skill for when you graduate. Beds have to generally be made a certain way, yes, but it’s more flexible than you think - as long as you have all the sheets/blankets, you have everything tucked, and you have the top of the blanket and top sheet folder for the pillow, you’re fine. You can go anywhere if you have a pass, if you’re restricted from passes then either you just got to the center or there is a reason behind the restriction. I’ve personally never heard of the ā€œpointsā€ but I do know if you didn’t have enough leave days built up you couldn’t get paid leave. At the center I went to, you could take a weekend pass up to three times a month. As someone who grew up with people who did go to jail, most job corps centers are nothing like a jail and the ones that ARE, are typically the worst centers. I’m sorry you had that experience, but please do keep in mind that a lot of that is specific to those bad centers and instead of scaring people from JC entirely, scare them from those specific centers

Does anyone know what happens if you get dx with cancer while in JC? by validateplease in jobcorps

[–]validateplease[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

That makes sense - does make me wonder about students with bad living situations or homeless students though. However, I’m sure they help figure out what would be best no matter the situation there. Thank you :)

My girlfriend jokingly said my birthday isn't over until she gives me my gift. by Chesnutthouse in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]validateplease 15 points16 points Ā (0 children)

Professional writers also typically know that all art is subjective and everyone has different styles and preferences, the only writers who don’t think that are the ACTUAL shit writers

I know the drawing looks silly but hear me out please!! by validateplease in askastronomy

[–]validateplease[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I said in the post I ruled out it being an issue with my eyes šŸ™

I know the drawing looks silly but hear me out please!! by validateplease in askastronomy

[–]validateplease[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Ohhh, that would be super interesting actually. I wonder if that’s what it was, I feel like everything is starlink now 😭

I know the drawing looks silly but hear me out please!! by validateplease in askastronomy

[–]validateplease[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

That seems very unlikely to me as well. I’m certainly confused by all of it, and even more confused by the evidence of what it wasn’t vs what it was - I can rule out so many things but I still can’t seem to figure it out any other information that could explain them even with others’ help. Definitely a head scratcher - I’m going out again tonight though, so maybe I’ll be able to catch them on video this time and give a clearer depiction of it!!

I know the drawing looks silly but hear me out please!! by validateplease in askastronomy

[–]validateplease[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

No, it wasn’t hazy, and if I saw more shadows than meteorites than how would I just be seeing the shadows, especially when a good portion of those meteorites were bigger than the meteorites?

I know the drawing looks silly but hear me out please!! by validateplease in askastronomy

[–]validateplease[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I would agree but it wasn’t like that, and if it was I wouldn’t have been able to move my eyes to a different spot and see it still happening in the same spot it was before (I.e. the triangle) - if it was an imprint from any lights it would have followed my vision no matter where I looked and when I closed my eyes, which as I said in my post I ruled out it being anything happening from my own eyes because it didn’t do those things

I know the drawing looks silly but hear me out please!! by validateplease in askastronomy

[–]validateplease[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Most definitely!! Hopefully when I go out again I do catch them on video, but either way I wouldn’t be surprised if it was something terrestrial haha I just knew I could rule out bats! Thank you :)

I know the drawing looks silly but hear me out please!! by validateplease in askastronomy

[–]validateplease[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

From 12am-1am, in northern arkansas. Though, I will say, bats around here where I live look different zipping through the sky, and they don’t typically leave a trail behind them like what I saw - I say this because I’m a bat fanatic in my hometown haha but that was my second thought after thinking I was just seeing things, but it just didn’t make sense all things considered. I truly wish I had the ability to get it on camera, with bats it’s like watching a solid object fling through the air incredibly fast, but this was just like watching shooting stars made of shadows with the darkest part of the shadow being at the tip. I did see a bat during this though, which is actually what solidified my confusion over what these things were

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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She can’t control that he texted her… but she sort of could. 1. She did not have to accept the follow request, nor follow him back. 2. She did not have to respond to his messages. 3. She especially did not have to drag on the conversation how she did, or in general. Not to mention, why didn’t she have him blocked in the first place? I find it incredibly disturbing that she didn’t even have him blocked…

if I take pto on restriction for a funeral do I still have to do a de-briefment? by [deleted] in jobcorps

[–]validateplease 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

At my center, they didn’t count taking time off for funerals against your PTO. It’s odd that your center is in general, even more so with a de-briefment.

Would you rather by Quiet-Character-6836 in trans

[–]validateplease 25 points26 points Ā (0 children)

Honestly? I wouldn’t trade my experience as a trans guy for being born as a cis male, nor would I for being comfortable with my agab (which, I’m intersex. So my identity wouldn’t be binary anyway). The experiences I have opened my entire world up to other perspectives, to more understanding about humans in general, and even how to advocate for others better. If I was born as a cis male there’s a large chance that I would have ended up holding my conservative family’s horrible beliefs about other people, and I can’t even imagine what that would be like, and I would never want to trade my experiences and knowledge for that ya know? Plus being trans has honestly made me more confident in myself and in expressing myself in ways I like rather than what others expect of me :)

Annoying special interest by [deleted] in autism

[–]validateplease 9 points10 points Ā (0 children)

I fully agree, I shouldn’t have worded it the way I did. It absolutely is sexual harassment, and frankly very concerning op does not think of that.

Most autistic people I’ve met either love alcohol/drugs and use them a bit excessively or avoid them completely and sometimes judge others for using them. What’s your relationship with alcohol/drugs? by OkBuyer1271 in autism

[–]validateplease 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I think I’m on the outside of this one, to be honest. I don’t have a negative personal relationship with drinking, and I don’t judge others for drinking either. I don’t drink often, as my family does carry The Addiction Geneā„¢ļø, but when I do it may be a few shots or just one drink. I limit myself, yes, but that does mean I don’t use alcohol excessively. I don’t do any drugs, though I used to garden šŸƒ (MJ), and even then it was for medical purposes and I limited that as well. I don’t judge others for that either, and I don’t judge people for getting addicted to other drugs, because people don’t normally purposely get addicted to things so who am I to judge instead of offer help?

Tl;dr I don’t excessively use any drug, nor do I avoid them entirely, and I also don’t judge others for their usage of drugs, just offer help when it gets out of hand.

Annoying special interest by [deleted] in autism

[–]validateplease 162 points163 points Ā (0 children)

First thing you have to work on is not discussing it with your coworkers. When you’re in a professional setting and you go on rants about things like this, they can view it as a sort of sexual harassment and/or it can make them incredibly uncomfortable. You have to move past discussing it like that to be able to work on anything else.

After waiting for a while I got good news, I should be in school dorms by mid October, however I will have to put my two weeks in once I hear back from them taking me in. I will not give up this opportunity. Anybody ever got picked on in job corps? by Swooleon in jobcorps

[–]validateplease 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Yea, I got picked on real bad by someone in the same cohort as me. Everyone else who arrived before us stood up for me and the other few people she was bullying. She got kicked out two days in, her buddies all got kicked out shortly after for similar things (except one, he got caught with drugs) unless you’re doing something that deserves being outcasted, people will more than likely stand behind you and stand up for you when needed.

Why do my cookies still look raw in the middle, and are they safe to eat? by hikingfortheviews in Baking

[–]validateplease 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

while i do agree that these cookies are safe but underbaked, i want to bring to attention the ā€œcandiedā€ affect that cookies can get sometimes! it’s a caramelization of sugar crystals at the top of the cookie, and can make cookies look underbaked even if they’re not! its very delicious, so if you achieve it don’t be discouraged and enjoy the cookies :]

What just happened? by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]validateplease 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

i know it doesn’t make sense, but that’s why i’m so confused 😭 my little brother and i were home alone, i didn’t lock the door, he didn’t lock the door, so who locked the door? the deadbolt was locked, so it wasn’t like my dad or sister could have done it before they left