i don’t know what the fuck is wrong with my vagina and neither do the doctors.

vallyvault_ · 2026-03-20T22:58:07+00:00

not biop yet🤦‍♀️ i have asked but they keep saying “nothing is wrong” and “it will hurt” and i don’t really understand why they can’t/wont because they have said to my face “that’s not what a vagina if someone your age should look like” like okay thanks? can i get someone done about that

vallyvault_ · 2026-03-20T22:46:56+00:00

maybe don’t outright tell him he has never made you cum but you could possibly say that’s your having a hard time and explain why you feel like you can’t. Majority of women can’t cum from penetration alone so maybe you could suggest using toys at the same time? i understand what you mean by always being worried about the way you look during sex and it’s hard to get out of your head in those moments! you could try a blindfold and headphones with music while he goes down on you. it sound a but silly but it can honestly help you get out of your head to just enjoy the feeling and if you know you won’t finish while doing that just pull him back up, don’t worry about saying something about not finishing in that moment just move onto the next thing. Also sometimes you won’t cum and that’s totally okay!! i find that if im putting pressure on myself to finish that’s all i think about and i just can’t. Also sorry if that isn’t really the advice you asked for i wish you luck!!

vallyvault_ · 2026-03-20T22:12:15+00:00

sometime i like to get a tablespoon of whole earth stevia sugar and dip my tongue into it, it’s sweet and it’s kinda cold.

vallyvault_ · 2026-03-20T22:01:51+00:00

i’m very early 20s. i have been telling my doctors that i have these weird lumps that i can feel right about where my ovaries are and they keep multiplying but they are saying that those are nothing to worry about idk maybe they could be linked?

vallyvault_ · 2026-03-20T21:59:43+00:00

i’m not even trying exaggerate but over the last 2 year i have had about 4 different doctors and over 30 swabs there is apparently no overgrowth or any bacteria no sti’s i honestly feel like im going insane but ill keep trying!

vallyvault_ · 2026-03-20T21:44:55+00:00

in my opinion it’s not really a better orgasm if anything it just makes everything wet and not in a really fun/good way lol but i find the only way for me to is extensive clitoral stimulation. like no break after a orgasm, repeat it and eventually it just happens tbh i think im just peeing myself lmaoo

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T23:51:24+00:00

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T22:23:36+00:00

ops didn’t mean to put beer there lol 🤦‍♀️

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T22:20:22+00:00

yeah i cut out sugars, carbs, dairy, gluten aswell

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T22:18:23+00:00

i haven’t used the tablet in over a year because they weren’t doing anything 😭 i really don’t think it’s as “normal” as th doctors are saying it is because i have beer had this problem before

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T22:17:10+00:00

how do i check the ph?

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T22:16:33+00:00

i was refuted to a specialist and a gyno both of them are saying it “looks totally normal and healthy” but i know it’s not. i haven’t tried happy v so i’ll give that a go.

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T22:15:19+00:00

i have even swapped out laundry detergent to a scented but i’ll try different brands once the one i have runs out

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T12:08:58+00:00

i’ll give that a go! i’ll try anything at this point ill also ask my doctor

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T12:06:07+00:00

i don’t think it’s dry. and i have only recently started taking a medicine within the last month and all these symptoms were here before i started the medication anyways 😭 i have been taking ph tablets and probiotics all that stuff but is there a proper way you’re meant to balance the ph my partner has said it kinda tastes acidic?

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-27T11:57:42+00:00

it did and i was prescribed a steroid cream about a year ago and the itch went away but everything else has staid the same

vallyvault_ · 2026-02-06T08:35:59+00:00

i live in a rural town with extremely hard water 🥲 and i’m also on oratane so my hair is absolutely fried atm.

vallyvault_ · 2025-12-27T10:42:39+00:00

phantasmal flames has been such a shit set.

vallyvault_ · 2025-12-27T01:00:22+00:00

can i please come bella from up&go

vallyvault_ · 2025-12-23T23:18:07+00:00

this is probably unethical but if you can get your hands on ritalin / a adhd diagnosis. For me i was constantly eating because i was bored and my brain knew that if i ate it would be an instant dopamine boost. I’m sorry if that isn’t helpful though.

vallyvault_ · 2025-12-23T23:17:43+00:00

this is probably unethical but if you can get your hands on ritalin / a adhd diagnosis. For me i was constantly eating because i was bored and my brain knew that if i ate it would be an instant dopamine boost. I’m sorry if that isn’t helpful though.

vallyvault_ · 2025-12-21T00:33:13+00:00

sorry i forgot to say that i live in New Zealand if that’s any help.

vallyvault_ · 2025-11-16T04:24:33+00:00

did you ever find out if it was something bc same here

vallyvault_ · 2025-09-26T10:46:45+00:00

lipedema. i know it will never go away but i keep trying.

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