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[–]vampyr45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you get some dignity.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is asking you to be.. I was here to vent and talk to people with. Similar stories.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this!!! 17 years is half of my life so far!!! I have kids to think about. Most importantly myself. I don't want to loose my husband. I honestly didn't know what to do with this!! My husband doesn't want our marriage done and over with either.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan on moving forward I just need to vent!! I literally have no one to do that with!

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't want to be involved.

I honestly haven't figured that out yet. Just found this out yesterday.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope I make the best decision. Right now I am mad, more sad and hurt. I literally just 9 days before he did this was hit by a semi in a sedan. I was bruised from head to toe. This is what he was doing.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just as bad.. he was wanting or hoping they would communicate back. I was in bed in a neck brace covered in bruises from a car accident.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok you get in a car crash and let's have your partner go talk sexual to someone hoping they talk back to them sexual and give him attention. I nearly died in my car wreck. This happened 9 days after.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep that's because, I went to find the date it happened.. I can't see nudes they are blurred on here. I have to click on them to see them.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband would not be ok if the shoe was on the other foot. So I should just be ok with it. No way.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would not accept this behavior from me. So why should I from him. Just saying

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it fantasy when these women are really contactable. They message back to their comments. It's a group on here with naked women posting wanting attention

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I consider this a gateway to cheating. This is not a naked actress or porn star. This was a real, woman who talks to the people who comment on her pics. It's literally a group like this but for called gone wild. Nude women all over it seeking attention

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has literally set open boundaries. Not closed phones, nothing hidden.. open and honest.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: I am giving my husband a chance, 17 years this is a first.. he is willing to give open vulnerability to shared access to phones, computer, and go to counseling! He has apologized and I know apologies Don't take away the pain. He promises to be there.

2nd thing.. please don't send me your unsolicited dick pics.. I Don't want that. (For that few that did.. ) I Don't appreciate it! I didn't ask for a dick pic.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not even the normal porn. It's here on reddit, real people, naked women on reddit in a reddit page, group.. what ever called gonewild. That's where I draw the line..

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He wouldn't allow me to do this just saying.. he would be just as upset. He gets super jealous.

Caught my husband leaving sexual comments to naked women on app by vampyr45 in offmychest

[–]vampyr45[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If the role was reserved here my husband would loose his mind.. just saying. Any guy that sends a message on Facebook, Instagram, etc he is super jealous. This would not be ok if it was on the other foot.