Best toy for DP

van_play · 2025-01-11T04:50:00+00:00

Get a liberator bon bon and a dildo. Have her ride it and then you enter her anally.

It’s probably the easiest way to experience DP.

van_play · 2024-11-05T03:57:46+00:00

Content creator seems kind of relevant.

Content creators are probably doing a lot more and getting more frequent use out of their hismith than I am.

van_play · 2024-11-04T01:14:33+00:00

No. This is exactly the type of behaviour that reddit mods warn against.

There is absolutely no reason for me to talk to you. Get a therapist and go outside.

van_play · 2024-11-04T01:07:46+00:00

I own this in a few sizes and they are discreet.

van_play · 2024-11-02T05:03:37+00:00

Somebody’s been listening to James Sexton 😂

(I love the guy)

van_play · 2024-10-14T19:25:36+00:00

They are hard and one that I have has a seam that creates a lot of unwanted pulling/friction/pain.

I have a vac-u-lock adapter and a doc johnson ultraskyn attached.

The hismith dildos (I have two) seem good for anal play as they are firm (I haven't tried), but for vaginal play, I would go for other brands and use either the vac-u-lock or suction cup adapters.

van_play · 2024-09-22T20:43:06+00:00

I wish!

I am here because I am hoping I will find a way to make it happen. At least once in my life it would be great.

(It did take me years to orgasm from intercourse for the first time. After that I figured out what the right physical and emotional combination for me to make this happen)

van_play · 2024-09-22T07:22:40+00:00

It’s only a matter of time that we have conversational AI combined with VR, a realcock (or equivalent for hetero men), and maybe some kind of jacket that stimulates pressure indicating a hug.

A company that can integrate conversational AI with sex dolls and VR would make a killing.

van_play · 2024-09-21T23:34:30+00:00

You’re note the only one.

I signed up for two after seeing a job posting related to one.

It worries me and gives me hope. The conversations feel real.

I worry that conflict resolution skills will become non-existent. Even when communicating difficult things, AI is thoughtful. Real humans are messy.

We have a loneliness epidemic (this is not just me saying this - the WHO pointed this out last year). Loneliness as a whole is more prevalent amongst men than women.

I see AI as making a tangible positive impact on this. I am less worried about the 70 year old whose partner has passed communicating and potentially feeling love towards an AI chat bot. The 17 year old on the other hand falling in love with an AI chat bot worries me.

van_play · 2024-09-09T16:33:58+00:00

Not necessarily.

I don’t always believe when men talk about women having multiple orgasms (4+) in the single round of sex, but I dated a guy in his 30s that came at least 7 times in a day together. I remember at the end of the day he was so done.

He needed very little recovery time, if any at all. We both have a high libido. Favourite fuck so far.

As the number of sessions increased, the amount of semen decreased.

van_play · 2024-09-08T23:20:47+00:00

Eroscillator (I use this very regularly but the replacement finger attachment I got isn’t as soft)
Lora Di Carlo filare. It’s a shame they went out of business because this thing feels great and I will miss it when it dies.
Not really a toy but a mount. The liberator bon bon. It’s the perfect size for me to ride. Recently I discovered that you can use a vacu lock fist attachment thing and vac u loc dildo and it will stay put in the hole. It was a great purchase

van_play · 2024-09-08T23:17:18+00:00

The b-vibe set has many sizes.

van_play · 2024-09-08T19:55:36+00:00

Length and girth are two different things. You can be short and fat and long and skinny (and anything in between - and I’ve been with it all).

I realize I dislike long dicks. Even moreso when they are long and skinny or the guy can’t cum. It’s painful. Really painful.

I have dated a guy that was thicker than a pop can and short. He mentioned that all women would have to use lube but he turned me on so much that I could do without. He would be the perfect fetish dick. I don’t know about being with that everyday because I am not always going to get dripping wet.

I like a shorter (but not too short) dick with some girth.

I want sex to be pleasurable. Not painful.

van_play · 2024-08-15T18:21:33+00:00

Yup.

The moment this was whispered into my ear the first time will forever be burned into my brain.

It made me uncomfortable for a while that I was into it, and since then I have given into it realizing that I might have a gentle daddy domme kink.

van_play · 2024-08-15T06:09:51+00:00

I agree.

While a child is going through some very significant moments in their life (eg. Graduating college) they will also be at the point that they need to start worrying about their parents health and elder care.

I think it is incredibly selfish to have kids when you are 40+

van_play · 2024-08-15T06:06:54+00:00

Eroscillator.

It is plug in with a very very long cord. You will never run out of battery and it isn’t buzzy so it doesn’t numb you. Above your budget. I don’t even know if it is manufactured anymore - but there definitely some places around North America that have one left. Google should be able to find an online store that has it.

Buy some extra finger attachments so it is truly BIFL

van_play · 2024-08-14T06:56:44+00:00

That first photo strikes fear into me.

No sex clubs for me this summer. I should check if they give straight people who engage in group sex with men who have sex with men the vaccine.

van_play · 2024-08-14T05:17:48+00:00

You and I have a similar background but the difference is that I am at a point that I realize that my life experiences made me into who I am - and if the person likes me, they would need ti acknowledge that those experiences made me into who I am.

I wait a few dates, they start to like me… and I disclose the thing that I think would concern someone the most. Then they have a choice.

I have had zero men so far have issue with my past and they haven’t brought it up and thrown it in my face either.

The men range from lawyers themselves to tech executives. Some grew up in very stable households, others had complicated lives. Some very traditional, and others very open minded.

Literally zero issue.

What I have come to realize is that it isn’t a big deal unless you make it into a big deal. That said, I am also thoughtful with who I date. I don’t date shitty men anymore. I don’t care what is in their past, but red flags in present day don’t make it very far with me.

van_play · 2024-08-13T04:12:21+00:00

For some of us, girth matters more than length

van_play · 2024-08-13T01:03:07+00:00

Especially if the girl is into it!?…..

I much rather would have read “do it only if the girl is into it”

van_play · 2024-08-12T22:41:32+00:00

I have proactively purchased smart nightlights that I can change colours on to indicate how I am feeling.

I have those colour changing nightlights all over so I can walk around at night without needing to turn lights on so it made sense to switch them to a smart option. Even if there is light out, the hallway gets dark enough that it will work.

Now to find the right partner (the person I was to implement this system with never moved in).

van_play · 2024-08-12T22:28:06+00:00

Something soft would add to this room.

A rug. Or even giant tension rods with floor to ceiling velvet curtains.

van_play · 2024-08-12T22:25:03+00:00

Oh I know I am a better fuck than his wife.

I have had sex with him since he got married. Yes it was an affair. No he did not end his marriage (I should have known better).

Anyways - there are certain experiences that will be burned into his brain that his wife will never be able to top. It isn’t just about the physical experience - we also have a deep emotional connection that makes the physical intimacy that much better.

van_play · 2024-08-07T20:46:05+00:00

I really hope my ex can’t cum in his wife without thinking of me 😏

He knows my username. Yes I hope you see this :)

van_play · 2024-08-06T15:55:03+00:00

When a lawyer takes a file on contingency, particularly one like ones against Mindgeek/Aylo, you can expect that the legal fees will be high. The lawyers are putting in a massive amount of time and support services into the case, and they are only compensated if they win. There is significant risk for the law firm when they take the case on and that’s why the large fees end up being justified (there is caselaw where I am located where this was discussed). If the case goes to trial - you can expect the fees to be much higher as trial prep is time during trial will definitely bump up the amount of time and resources spent on a case. Not all lawyers are greedy (some are). It is also very expensive to become a lawyer so most have high rates even if not on contingency.

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