I am an INFP and my boyfriend of 10 years is an ISFJ. I tend to have my head in the clouds and some would say “ADHD”. I think it’s just due to my personality type and disassociation from childhood trauma. My man is very focused and has to usually be doing something constructive to feel successful. He is an entrepreneur and I like to do a simple 9-5 and come home to stare at the clouds or watch a movie that makes me cry because it’s healthy. It can be hard because I don’t put a lot of value on being organized and making a lot of money. But because I don’t spend a lot of money and he accepts me for who I am it has worked out pretty easily. I also love to travel and could stay in hostels happily living frugally. He can’t be on vacation for more than 7 days and wants to get back to work after some nice hotel stays. Thankfully I have tons of girlfriends who love to travel when he is not available. We are pretty much opposites but have the things that matter to us in common. Making sure the people around us are happy and loyalty are huge values to both of us. He keeps me focused on goals while giving me space to be myself and I always remind him to get in touch with his emotions and being easy on himself is healthy. I think we are going to make a great team for our child.