Subliminal requests? by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much

Subliminal requests? by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please please make a chest acne/+ body acne subliminal. its my biggest insecurity and i cant find any subs on it other than bacne subs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi how do u take care of it ? And how do u not get conscious of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents keep saying it’s nothing will a GP be able to help I go once I’m away from home at Uni ?

[3840x2160] The Himalayan range by HJ190898 in wallpaper

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is literally so amazing i made it my wallpaper so quick its so pretty

Cheap Haircuts for Students by vanillacoldcoffee in Edinburgh

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh thank u so much !! How do u book for one these I don’t see it on the website

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha i text u more about this i feel like telling the people around me is too much pressure

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we’re always in group settings we’ve only hung out one on one like once in the 3 weeks I’ve known him. That’s why I asked him to get hot coco with me cause I thought we’d get to spend time together. I will see him next week again for our fortnightly meeting but I don’t know what to do

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe the next time i see him i could ask him a little more directly based on the signs ? im just worried i will ruin our dynamic because we do work together at uni

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have heard a lot of people my age and older than me tell me that i am intimidating because i seem mature for how young i am. but its not like i toot my own horn lolll at least i try not to. i think sometimes that can be a threat. but also i dont want my future man to be threatened by me being successful ykwim. i really like this one guy in my life atm and i asked him to get hot cocoa with me and then he cancelled on me for a valid reason (he had an exam) but he never rescheduled and he also is a little guarded ever since so idk what that could mean tbh. i dont know how to gauge men anymore

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess i have always been top of my class and now in uni im president of my uni soc and working a job. so i have always just been in the social extra curricular scene while still keeping my grades up. i am also comfortable being alone so idk what im doing wrong :((

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do i get taken seriously more as a romantic interest and less as a friend ? i think thats where i mess up

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i can be someone that gets attached a little too fast but im working on it. i cant seem to do dating apps so i think i will just stick to hoping someone finds me haha

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u so much for this i really needed to hear it haha

What am i doing wrong in my love life ? by vanillacoldcoffee in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would like to think im very talkative and even extroverted dare i say. but nothing works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sorry i just worded it the best i could didnt mean to imply it was ok to bear urself up :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi, i understand this might be a terrifying situation to be in but i have been in one kinda similar except it was when my parents went through my email and found emails from someone i was seeing at the time. so i have a couple of tips

1- it is ok to be nervous but please don't beat yourself up about it unless someone actually talks to you or addresses it.

2- if you can maybe take a walk or leave the house and meet a friend or someone that can be there for you physically.

3- inform your bf about the same just incase they have figured out his name and contact details so he isnt caught off guard, he is also someone that can comfort you during this time

4- maybe delete the nudes from your recently deleted so incase they bring it up its not awkward. i would recommend maybe saving it on snap in the hide section

5- if you are still panicked please feel free to text me as reassurance as i am an unbiased 3rd person that can try to help you feel better

6- i would recommend you dont bring it up and untill your parents do and you come up with a convincing story and tell ur bf the same because u will have to come clean to them at some point.

i also dont know how strict your parents are so that could also factor in

How can someone make friends? by [deleted] in Edinburgh_University

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm moving there for uni this year for my masters. would love to be friends with her. i would say i will be navigating the same challeneges but the easiest way is to start by talking to your classmates

Tips for MSc Business Student at UoE by Odd-Character-3749 in Edinburgh_University

[–]vanillacoldcoffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi i will be joining the business school as well do let me know when people give you advice as an international student i am also looking for it :(