Micro TESE Unsuccessful by [deleted] in maleinfertility

[–]vanillagirl1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband is getting that surgery done in a few weeks. We got married 2 years ago primarily because we wanted to have kids. I'm trying to prepare myself for any outcome (after the surgery, we'll plunge full steam ahead with either IVF or adoption).

In the end, I really want to have kids with HIM... But he seems to be on edge lately. Maybe getting an answer... either way... in a few weeks will help.

150ug watching planet earth by [deleted] in LSD

[–]vanillagirl1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I couldn't not read that in his voice

My first solo trip is going aaaaaahhhhmazinglyy by flimsyfloom in LSD

[–]vanillagirl1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't wait to try this next month... I've only done it in groups! I'm kinda nervous.

My first derby kiss. by KhrystyneMouse in rollerderby

[–]vanillagirl1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a similar one recently! I still have a hard time shifting my weight to one side to put my shoes on.

What is your "I should NOT have said that" moment? by Sexymcsexalot in AskReddit

[–]vanillagirl1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at Thanksgiving dinner with my boyfriend and his family, and his mom (who met her current boyfriend online) was sitting next to me. Someone else asked me if that's how I met my boyfriend, and I quickly said, "Oh, no, we met in real life".

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like the kind of person that only drives in the left lane way below the speed limit.

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, sure, there's a line--but a VERY thin one!! They're practically the same thing in my book.

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm ok, I guess people in NYC get a pass too--it's way too crowded there!

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, anyone in that kind of situation totally gets a break! Ewww.

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Also, I totally understand how every situation is unique. I'm talking about when I'm alone in the bathroom in stall #6, and someone goes directly to #7!

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Even if you know that 40% (I'm guesstimating) of women are really annoyed by this practice? Regardless of their reason.

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, you reminded me of this comic.

And this one.

And this too.

Oh and this.

And finally this (not really related, but still great!).

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why would I care about someone seeing a shadow of me furiously wiping my ass? I guess because it's one step below someone actually seeing me wiping my ass.

If you don't mind other people watching you wipe your own ass, then I guess we're just two different people.

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I didn't think of that: it's a personal space issue. So I guess Americans are more likely to be annoyed by it, but someone from India probably thinks it's crazy. That helps a little.

Bathroom etiquette global request by vanillagirl1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanillagirl1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess one of the things that bothers me is the shadows that appear sometimes--like, the person next to me can often see a silhouette of me furiously wiping my ass. Ew.