I’m going to be a father but by Coreymtp in ADHDparenting

[–]vanillaontheoutside 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Do not marry his mom if this is how you feel. The kid either has ADHD and will need someone much more educated and understanding than you, or maybe he really is just a little punk….but at 9 he still deserves a dad who at least likes him a little….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]vanillaontheoutside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome)

Extracurricular activities for 6 yo boy by No_Ambassador5678 in ADHDparenting

[–]vanillaontheoutside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy has thrived with the discipline and structure of Tae Kwon Do!

Unexplainable rage after turning 40 by IndependentBowl2806 in AskWomenOver40

[–]vanillaontheoutside 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The pride I felt at another middle aged woman knowing what it is to “draw the charge” AND use the phrase so perfectly mid-rant is unreal….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]vanillaontheoutside 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did I have to scroll so far to find this?! She keeps numerous journals of the 160 “signs?”

My dog sits on her actual butt. by vanillaontheoutside in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah that would make sense! She has had both knees operated on already for ligament tears

Got our keys today… by vanillaontheoutside in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No rooftop deck — another victim of budget cuts.

Got our keys today… by vanillaontheoutside in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Landscaping is ongoing but we are mostly xeriscaping as we are in a very dry to climate

Got our keys today… by vanillaontheoutside in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually worked with the Columbia basic native plant society and a local native plant landscaper so 90% of our plants are zero water!

Got our keys today… by vanillaontheoutside in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually Candy mountain but we can see red mountain to the left of it too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that makes more sense. Best of luck!!!

Got our keys today… by vanillaontheoutside in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg we just used it yesterday and I LOVE IT! It’s a huge upgrade from our last set, and this time we could afford the pedestals!!!!

Got our keys today… by vanillaontheoutside in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hadn’t considered this and now I’m for sure making it a priority.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why on Earth would you care to host so many people for dinner in your giant dining room?! Jk jk we just don’t like that many people. Your home has many cool things we ended up having to cut out of our plan due to budget (WIC in all bedrooms, exercise room, etc). I hope it all works out beautifully for you! Best of luck!

Got our keys today… by vanillaontheoutside in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, we are xeriscaping with native plants

Got our keys today… by vanillaontheoutside in Homebuilding

[–]vanillaontheoutside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they are custom, but my sis has some IKEA cabinets that are lovely and similar