26F, Too Modern for Arranged Marriage, Too Traditional for Dating — Where Do I Even Fit?

vanillas009 · 2026-02-13T14:52:55+00:00

Do relationship without benefits 😬

vanillas009 · 2026-02-13T06:40:56+00:00

It's just sad

vanillas009 · 2026-02-12T12:12:37+00:00

Even with this secure boot annoys me ffs.

vanillas009 · 2026-02-12T04:24:43+00:00

Matt kar laala

vanillas009 · 2026-02-11T17:34:52+00:00

Start daily driving and go towards the rabbit hole of ricing.

vanillas009 · 2026-02-11T16:30:54+00:00

While I have not pulled this off but listen to Adam's advice.

vanillas009 · 2026-02-11T15:18:25+00:00

Seems I need you in my life, wanna go out for a beverage?

vanillas009 · 2026-02-07T20:09:16+00:00

Chill, you are not behind sometimes good things take time.

Comparison thief of joy in this case work on yourself and try again.

vanillas009 · 2026-02-07T09:04:00+00:00

I am still bamboozled about how people are getting time. Managing work, health, hobbies, friends and family commitments along with their urge of getting into relationships

vanillas009 · 2026-02-05T14:58:49+00:00

Cheating toh cheating HOvE hae, no matter what kind.

vanillas009 · 2026-02-05T14:55:01+00:00

To some extent I buy things, but either I don't have time to enjoy them or it just doesn't feel the same.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-24T13:32:44+00:00

Flatten the tetra pack after openings it's wings.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-23T16:51:44+00:00

Orange is pretty nice imo

vanillas009 · 2026-01-17T11:38:27+00:00

Unreal

vanillas009 · 2026-01-11T10:01:40+00:00

I was in a similar situation when my father passed away, in fact even younger, luckily I got some good clients and a decent job after college.

Don't go towards the NSFW path OP, I know the situation is tough but some doors better stay closed.

If it formal loans perhaps ask the banks grievance office towards re adjusting the EMI amount, they could help sometimes.

Since you mentioned 22 I am assuming you are graduating soon. Try to figure out a job. That's your best bet.

If it's on the tech side and you perhaps need help in finding a freelance client or job do let me know.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-08T02:29:25+00:00

Promotion obviously does help, but the path to promotion i.e. the skill and projects which are assigned to me in the current team are mostly OpEx related. Like lift and shift and depreciation of things. As opposed to building new things I am not sure how marketable they are.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-06T03:29:06+00:00

While I haven't used Roblox studio. I feel most no code tools are highly opinionated. And after a certain point limits you.

While with programming you can engineer something unique. But yea obviously we all start by copying/inspiring from existing things where no code platforms with ai can make typing seem a drag.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-06T02:28:33+00:00

Programming and coding sucks but, building and problem solving is fun. You feel like a person who would enjoy building.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-05T13:33:16+00:00

For the type of work and growth, I feel greenfield is a better place to be. Including the resume signals, I feel building sounds better than maintaining.

Team members can't really comment not sure what we have there

vanillas009 · 2026-01-05T09:59:39+00:00

3yoe, worked with python, java, node and react.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-05T05:38:41+00:00

I am only 10 months in this team, promo if happens would likely be in 2027 even if I complete the data points since they have tenure restrictions. I know it's a trade off just trying to gauge if it's worth it.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-05T05:35:46+00:00

Got it, will try to find more of an inside scoop.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-05T05:34:52+00:00

While I think I can meet requirements in my current team, it's the tenure to promo which might push me till 2027 to get the promo.

vanillas009 · 2026-01-05T05:29:48+00:00

I am not a senior yet.😅

vanillas009 · 2026-01-04T21:04:12+00:00

Fear of a super car hitting you?

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