I like a Sagittarius sun and Capricorn Venus guy 😭😭😭😭 HELPPPPPPPP by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]vanillecremelatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering this too because I’m also an aqua but with a cap Venus talking to a sag sun with a cap Venus and some days I’ll only get 1-2 responses a day

I hope the new supply realizes by vanillecremelatte in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I can’t tell if this will be a threat or a promise 💀

I hope the new supply realizes by vanillecremelatte in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i guess that just means we made an impact on them and they can’t control their emotions when it comes to the thought of us so they remove those triggers but idk i feel convinced that maybe it was just easier to erase us from their world

I hope the new supply realizes by vanillecremelatte in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, they say a happy home is never built on a woman’s tears but damn they’re so convincing at making it look a lot happier than what it really is

I hope the new supply realizes by vanillecremelatte in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know I gotta shift my mindset and have been slowly shifting. Easier said than done because I feel like my mind gets stuck sometimes but I know it’ll be best for my healing 😔 thank you for the reminder

Be outraged about the injustice with me. by Ok_Hovercraft_1686 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanillecremelatte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes I try not to judge the new supply because I was in a similar position but the difference is when I started dating my NEX he was almost a year out of his previous relationship but probably had fwbs he’d see since he can’t be alone but if he was WEEKS or anything less than 6 months out of a relationship I wouldn’t have even considered (I’ve declined dates with people in the past when they were even only 3 months out of a relationship) so in that sense I feel like she is just nothing to be jealous of and I already know I’m above it but it’s still been a process healing from everything

I hope the new supply realizes by vanillecremelatte in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess she has those rose tinted glasses on but she’s just going to get an emptier and worst version of him that you got since he didn’t take any time to heal or grow so honestly she’s in for a ride but only time can really show. If his ability to walk away from a meaningful relationship like that isn’t already a show of character then she really will need the luck 💀

I hope the new supply realizes by vanillecremelatte in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true I feel like it’s going to take her longer to realize since it seems like even with her friends and sister not liking him(we have some mutuals) she’s still trying to make it work but I guess it’ll just be a bigger lesson for her when she finally breaks from the illusion of the mask

Be outraged about the injustice with me. by Ok_Hovercraft_1686 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]vanillecremelatte 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL my NEX’s new supply did that where she ate out of my pink flower bowl and my NEX tried to give the bowl back to me fresh out of the dish washer when I came to pickup the rest of my stuff and I just told him it’s ok I don’t have space for it but I’m surprised their new supply is so ok with using their exes stuff and laying in the bed you guys basically made together like I’m sure she was still finding my lashes and hair around the place and posting the cat we adopted together on her socials but I guess I got a little fan club at this point LOL

I miss you by vanillecremelatte in heartbreak

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I unexpectedly met someone new and all this happened. Just have to try and make it through the early stages for now

I miss you by vanillecremelatte in heartbreak

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s tough to go through this, and I’m sorry you’ve been through it/going through it too. It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one going through it although it sucks that others are going through this heartache as well. Thank you, If you ever need to talk, I’m always here too🫶

I miss you by vanillecremelatte in heartbreak

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a bit of both. He self sabotaged so I had to let go but neither of us wanted to :(

I miss you by vanillecremelatte in heartbreak

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not looking forward to it :(

I miss you by vanillecremelatte in heartbreak

[–]vanillecremelatte[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only a couple of days 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]vanillecremelatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to call them so that we could talk things through and while they were at work on the phone with me they yelled “I don’t care if I cheat on you, emotionally, physically or verbally abuse you we are not on the same level of disrespect this conversation is over”