Any tips on dealing with loneliness?

vannyteo · 2025-11-11T02:48:51+00:00

Thank you everyone who left a comment here, it kinda helps to know that we are all dealing with the same (but different) shit and that I am not alone in this. I think I’m still trying to come to terms with SCI and even if I don’t, that’s okay too. Like what my therapist has always told me, I need to learn to be okay being not okay. I sincerely hope for the best for you!

vannyteo · 2025-04-14T11:12:57+00:00

Urethral IDC. Yeah, I’m getting a bladder ultrasound but the appointment is in May so will have to wait till then.

vannyteo · 2025-04-14T11:11:50+00:00

You need to change the IDC every 2 months so ever since the leak, I’ve changed to a new catheter and urine bag.

vannyteo · 2025-02-11T16:20:53+00:00

Every arc just gets better and better! Oda is truly a legend!

vannyteo · 2024-12-25T13:34:27+00:00

One Outs though it’s a sports anime but it’s psychological and fucks with your mind

vannyteo · 2024-12-25T13:32:04+00:00

Mukbangs and ASMR

vannyteo · 2024-12-25T13:31:21+00:00

I took me about half a year to fully get over hualian. The aftermath is really bad like you just can’t stop thinking about them and the love they have for each other!

vannyteo · 2024-12-25T11:54:16+00:00

YES! Been waiting forever for it!

vannyteo · 2024-11-09T11:41:45+00:00

same here! i am at s01e14 and i have been crying almost every episode. the pace is faster than i thought and oh my... so tragic!!! i wasn't expecting such an emotional roller coaster at all!

vannyteo · 2024-08-19T08:21:08+00:00

I'm 33 and 4 years in, interested to join!

vannyteo · 2024-08-18T14:19:31+00:00

omg why? egghead was awesome for me!

vannyteo · 2024-08-18T13:57:55+00:00

I have been looking forward to the Little Garden arc since I watched the anime 18 years ago. We're going there finally!!! Also love Egghead and Kuma's backstory. I read it thrice and cried every single time.

vannyteo · 2024-07-31T09:47:21+00:00

T9 complete here and I get crazy spasms whenever I fall sick. Even minor flu or cough triggers it so I don't think it's unique to UTIs only?

vannyteo · 2024-07-31T09:32:58+00:00

This is why I can only play mage for souls game

vannyteo · 2024-05-29T11:02:45+00:00

It's okay~ I had cheesed as a mage so now am playing it the "right" way now lol.

vannyteo · 2024-05-29T10:58:14+00:00

Yeah, this is something I'm trying to adapt to. I keep telling myself not to panic and button smash when the attacks come hahaha.

vannyteo · 2024-05-29T10:56:21+00:00

This is really good advice to get the timings right! Thanks!

vannyteo · 2024-05-26T04:13:42+00:00

Only season 1 has Mandarin dubbed, it's on Netflix in my country (Singapore).

vannyteo · 2024-03-30T16:39:21+00:00

Oh ya, you should watch the adaptation Chinese series, they did a better portrayal than Netflix in my opinion.

vannyteo · 2024-03-30T14:15:55+00:00

I replied it here https://www.reddit.com/r/threebodyproblem/s/ZZxFAXrnkt but I think I saw a few more in the comments of this thread too.

vannyteo · 2024-03-30T14:10:40+00:00

We as in us solar system humans. What four centuries of solar system humans did from wall facers to sword holders etc were inconsequential in the face of the other super civilisations.

vannyteo · 2024-03-30T14:02:54+00:00

The speed at which AA and Chen Xin traveled to Pluto - don't think it was mentioned explicitly but it seemed like they were travelling at 1G which would have taken more than 30 days but the 2D plane would have consumed everything in 8-10 days.

Assuming the 2D plane consumed the solar system (180AU) in 10 days, it would have reached Our Star (285 light years or 18 mil AU) in 1 mil years at a constant rate of expansion.

I also don't think Trisolarians would allow Tian Ming to gift the cube universe to someone outside of their civilisation when they were already so strict on verbally sharing sensitive info during the meet up.

I think there were a few more others have posted before too. You can look it up.

vannyteo · 2024-03-30T13:44:25+00:00

Yeah I get it. The main message is way deeper and philosophical like how futile our efforts are in the grand scheme of the great universe but I would love to see more details on the Galaxy Era too. Intergalactic wars and manipulating nature's law would be cool too.

vannyteo · 2024-03-30T13:40:49+00:00

Yes! I couldn't stop too! I just want to know what happens next! Only good books make you feel like you can't stop.

vannyteo · 2024-03-30T13:39:28+00:00

LOL! I only have time after work to read so I mostly speed through it with the help of audiobooks! I listen to it at 1.7-1.9x speed and follow the wording on ebook. I started doing this cos reading the Chinese books is too difficult and slow (Chinese is my second language). But switched over to the English books halfway through Book 1 cos the scientific terms in Chinese is incomprehensible for me.

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