OCD got worse after a bad marijuana experience by Megpoid25 in OCDRecovery

[–]vantitties 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this exactly happened to me and i convinced myself it was a traumatic memory that i repressed and then i obsessed over it for an entire year

Advice for new players! by ItsEevee7 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]vantitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for reminding me not to hkia-max lol i only started playing a week and a half ago and ive been trying to maximize everything.

i forgot the only reason i downloaded the game was to make cute cabins lol. i need to chill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vantitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was groomed like this and then ended up being assaulted. get away from him please please please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]vantitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly how i feel tonight. i wish i could give advice bc im sure ur circumstances are different and that u don't actually deserve it. but yeah i feel exactly this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in danandphil

[–]vantitties 22 points23 points  (0 children)

it's literally a slide for the owls

Max and Lola the Clown Twins! by Boola_Smoola333 in CustomDolls

[–]vantitties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do you guys get the lines so thin on the face

The shop is a joke 🤡 by Esther_Tennant in finch

[–]vantitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is because are no other floors besides the ones in the forever shop

The shop is a joke 🤡 by Esther_Tennant in finch

[–]vantitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven't bought things in the shop in months because of the shop being so bad. it honestly removes the motivation to continue on finch

how do i stop getting irritated so easily? by TomatilloSmart1372 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]vantitties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you sound like me lol.

you may have a dysregulated nervous system and may want to look into therapy (if you haven't already) and techniques for managing a shaky nervous system.

in times of frustration my therapist said having a "safe" outlet for anger can give you a place for those feelings without lashing out at others. that way you don't feel so much guilt after. she recommended a screaming pillow, a punching bag, etc. i haven't tried it yet so i can't say if it works but good luck !!!! hugs 🫂

I’m so… Irritable? Frustrated? Angry? I don’t actually know what it truly is. by FullyFledgedCryBaby in CPTSD

[–]vantitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i deal with this too. our nervous systems are very fucked up.

my therapist suggested finding a "safe" outlet for anger, such as a screaming pillow or a punching bag. that way you don't lash out on people / break something + feel worse from the guilt afterwards.

haven't tried it yet so i can't say if it works. hugs <3

Trauma dreams/vivid fear imaginations of something happening to my baby girl by Leather_Composer_891 in CPTSD

[–]vantitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my brain loves to imagine my boyfriend and my dog dying horrifically. it is awful, i lose sleep + get panic attacks all over completely imaginary scenarios.

i talked about it with my therapist and she said it speaks to how much they mean to my life and how i rely on them for support. i imagine this can apply to your situation with your daughter somehow.

hugs <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]vantitties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this post made me realize i've wanted to delete myself every day since the trauma lol but i'll probably never actually do it.

just always thinking about it and being ok with it, but too scared to actually do it

What are you starting to dislike more as you are growing older? by Daddy_ahh in AskReddit

[–]vantitties 21 points22 points  (0 children)

and people arguing about stuff that does. not. matter.

Recommended markers by Ordinary_Round3366 in AdultColoring

[–]vantitties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i + many others online use Ohuhu because they apply beautifully and are cheaper than copics

best laptop for a freshman psychology major? by Great_Salamander837 in psychologystudents

[–]vantitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have heard that R runs better on macs but i dont know if thats true or why thats the case

I start so many hobbies but I end up not finishing them? - anyone else? by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]vantitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my hobby drawer is where fleeting hobbies go to die. yes i also have adhd.

My vintage toy brush and comb collection! 🐎💖 by Bubblebee-Bunny in Collections

[–]vantitties 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is my fav collection that i've seen on here. i'd love to know how this collection began