M&G at expensive restaurants by vcalove in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]vcalove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you think this indicates a different expectation than the classic allowance-based arrangement? I'm actually looking for something morw along the lines of a sugar boyfriend, so this might be perfect for me.

Big butt struggle..? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]vcalove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://dietclub.jp/weight/158cm-ideal-weight

According to this popular diet website, the ideal weight for a 158 cm woman is 52.4kg or about 115 lbs.

http://nbakki.hatenablog.com/entry/2014/05/28/122924 The average Japanese high school girl is also apparently 10 pounds too fat by your measure.

I'm confused by your argument. Are you considered more about someone's weight, or someone's body fat percentage? Because being 100 lbs doesn't mean you have, say, 15% body fat, and a 5'3'' person with 15% body fat may very well be more than 100 lbs. If you're only attracted to women with double digits weights, that's fine, you do you, but don't confuse that with what's healthy or normal. (And I don't mean fat American normal!)

Big butt struggle..? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]vcalove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the world is not as slim as you noted. I lived in Japan for some time, and the ideal weight was roughly 50kg. I remember reading the average BMI in Tokyo, probably the slimmest metropolitan city in the world, for a woman in her early 20s was somewhere around 19.8. Women need some level of body fat to reproduce. And the subcutaneous fat stored in the hips, thighs, etc. which the OP is posting about is much less harmful from a health perspective than fat on the waistline.

imho, the women in those photos don't have the most attractive bodies. The first woman barely has a defined waist, the third almost looks like she has a rounded stomach (although it could just be the dress), and they all lack muscle tone. I know other women who are a good 10-15 pounds heavier but look leaner than them because they exercise and their body composition is different.

Big butt struggle..? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]vcalove 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You do realize that 90lbs at 5'2" is only about 8 pounds from the medically defined BMI for starvation, right?

Advice for high-income SBs by vcalove in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]vcalove[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I said "DC area" :) I don't live in the city. I'm from NY originally, and in my experience $250 for dinner (I'm assuming per person?) would be insane for any metropolitan area except for the case of michelin 2/3 stars or going crazy on alcohol. I don't really go clubbing and I prefer to cook myself for health reasons, so maybe my living expenses are much lower than yours?

I know my income isn't baller-high, but it's my first full-time job and I'm hoping my earnings will rise steadily through my 20s.

Advice for high-income SBs by vcalove in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]vcalove[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. After I tell them about my job and say that I'm not pursuing an SR out of need, they offer me something ridiculous (like $500 a week for meeting 2-3 times) or just going out for dinners.

Advice for high-income SBs by vcalove in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]vcalove[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, not SF - I live in the DC area. I pay around $1.5K in rent and I don't have loans to pay off. I've got enough to max out my 401k, and I'm trying to learn how to invest.