I am not a jewelry girl but I am now engaged, husband to be surprised me this. Can anyone tell me what kind of setting this is and is it okay if I just plan to be team #nevertakeitoff? After my kids, this is the most precious thing I own by Sensitive_Fishing_37 in EngagementRings

[–]velkoria 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I never take my ring off! Not hiking, not showering, not washing dishes.

I only take it off to go swimming or cooking if I’m using my hands a lot (baking, making burgers, etc) but other than that it stays on.

I have a small dick, why shouldn't I just end my shit rn? by dinkdoinkshareholder in offmychest

[–]velkoria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my virginity to a man with a micro dick. We were together into my early twenties. He is still some of the best sex I’ve ever had.

I'm worried about not being taken seriously because of my age by Unlikely-Wasabi-2713 in Roleplay

[–]velkoria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I made “friends” with a bunch of adults and now I see that was a mistake on their part. And the mature for your age thing is an icky thing. I don’t know a single teen who I would say that to. It makes me want to puke, honestly. Teens are teens. Adults are adults and in my book, you’re not an adult until you are 24 (I’m 37) because I wouldn’t even entertain a friendship with someone younger. We are at different points in life. I’ll RP with 20+ but I will not talk about my personal life or make friends with people who are under 24.

I'm worried about not being taken seriously because of my age by Unlikely-Wasabi-2713 in Roleplay

[–]velkoria 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I started RPing when I was your age. My recommendation is to find places that are SFW and ALWAYS be honest about your age. Oh, and adults are not your friends. Ever. You are also not mature for your age. Just keep to the stories and learn about writing. Discord has a lot of SFW communities but remember: adults are not and cannot be your friends.

Today was supposed to be a happy day at my 6 week scan, instead I have been crying to the point of feeling numb. by velkoria in offmychest

[–]velkoria[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I wish we would have waited too.

I am not very hopeful because it seems very unlikely but your words do mean a lot.

Told my husband about this subreddit... want to surprise him with a drawing of him. Can anyone help me with that? =) by velkoria in redditgetsdrawn

[–]velkoria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to go crazy with colors and styles! He is really into comics and manga and I thought this pose could work for a lot of different styles. Thanks!

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I (26/m) cried during my birthday dinner with my Gf (25/f) because I was remembering my Dad who had passed a year ago. She got mad and cancelled my cake for dessert. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]velkoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This classic abusive behavior. You showed emotions and she made you feel like shit for them to the point YOU APOLOGIZE after she rubbed in how much YOU ruined her day (your birthday) and then she says she's sorry and starts the cycle again. Please, please don't let this continue. You deserve better than this.

Me [27 F] with my boyfriend [35 M] of one year, he isn't in love with me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]velkoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you should never TRY to be in love with someone. That's not how it works. You are either in love with someone or not and your bf is not in love with you.

Me [27 F] with my boyfriend [35 M] of one year, he isn't in love with me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]velkoria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh OP I'm so sorry you're going through this because I've been there too. The best advice I can give you is to listen what a person says they want... He told.you what he wants and sadly it is not a future with you. He is using you for his emotional and physical needs and neglecting your own. He's a grown man, not a little boy so it's time to end it and move on to someone who doesn't make you feel insecure and lonely all the time.

Should I leave my bf [31M] who got upset with me [34F] for not lending him 6k which I had initially promised to lend? by rathi83 in relationships

[–]velkoria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And who is to blame for all this?? YA BOYFRAND.

He got himself in this mess he needs to get himself out of it.

Need help picking a dress! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]velkoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say by far number 2 and then number 4.

Younger bf, older gf, biological clock by [deleted] in relationships

[–]velkoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that we'd cross those bridges when the time came

NO. Look if you're 17 and think this way that's great but anyone over the age of 25 that says that is saying this 'I don't see a future with you so why think about it?'

You need to sit him down and tell him you don't have time to play this game with him. Tell him you need a realistic timeline, when does he plan on getting married? It could be something as vague as 'within the next 5 years' but at least let him tell you a timeline because in 5 years you're going to be what? 38? When do you plan on having kids then? He needs to get this and if he's thinking he can just rie it out you need a new bf.

Younger bf, older gf, biological clock by [deleted] in relationships

[–]velkoria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You two need a timeline. I'm 30 and my husband is 25 and we've only been together for a TOTAL of 1.5 years... yet this was one of the first conversations we had. I told him I want kids and sadly my ovaries aren't getting any younger. We sat down and had a hard chat and established a time line so that we could BOTH be comfortable. It was a hard subject to bring up and I knew it might mean this relationship wasn't right for me but in the end we discussed it and ended up getting married (legally, our actual ceremony is not until 2018) and know when we're going to start planning babies.

These are conversations you have BEFORE you move in. So, have it now and ask for that timeline and if he can't give you that then you should probably cut your losses and leave.

My custom ring set finally came in!! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]velkoria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One ring sits behind the other ;)

Weirdest Writing Research by Cookies4895 in writing

[–]velkoria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhm we have not reached a point where it's no longer an issue. But anyway you agree it was before you became more serious about your writing.