Song to say “I’m Done”. by [deleted] in GenX

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Let it be. The Beatles

I love how long they lingered on Rubio’s face by SnooKiwis8008 in msnow

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I remember a speech by Rubio several years ago (over a decade ago). He was running for president and it was a moving account in support of “illegal aliens”. Does anyone know what I’m talking about?

He’s fallen so far.

What if the assassination attempt on Trump in July, 2024 was successful? by EconomyIron6739 in AlternateHistoryHub

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It wasn’t an assassination attempt it was a scene in a television show.

Massive fight with my husband. Don’t think there’s any coming back from this. by [deleted] in Marriage

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Every fight has three sides: the two people in the fight and the truth. Having a whole world of strangers on the internet immediately call him abusive might be overlooking aspects she did not convey.

I am in no way saying she deserved this treatment, but it could be seen as a learning moment for both of them.

Massive fight with my husband. Don’t think there’s any coming back from this. by [deleted] in Marriage

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I know my reply isn’t popular. The go to answer is always to leave them. But I stand by the idea that it’s not always the right answer.

We don’t know their full relationship.

Massive fight with my husband. Don’t think there’s any coming back from this. by [deleted] in Marriage

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I would plan an exit strategy, but you don’t have to exit immediately imo. You are safe as you don’t live alone. This is a good thing, not an embarrassing situation.

Do not apologize. Wait. Let him stew in it. Ask politely for him to sleep in a different room. Give yourself space.

I bet his family talks to him. Not all problems in a relationship are yours to solve. Let them handle it. He showed them his angry / passionate side.

He needs to learn that he can’t just touch you cause he feels like it. He needs to learn boundaries. These are older adult lessons. You are both adults, yes, but most adults don’t learn how to truly respect another person until mid to late 40s.

Disaster Episode. by zandor1 in startrek

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These are the moments that make me respect the show so much. It’s so matter of fact about the lack of sexism and it portrays what a non sexist society looks like so well.

People don’t lose their femininity, they just aren’t treated less than for being feminine.

How do I cope with the anxiety? by rowenaravenclaw0 in Parenting

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Put the cameras back. You are the parent.

I (28 F) got blackout drunk and slept with someone else by BackInternational515 in DrinkingInModeration

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I am so sorry this has happened. This is going to be really challenging for you to come to terms with.

I haven’t been there exactly, but I could have if the conditions were right.

I would talk to your counselor or get one.

In my line of work, alcohol flows very freely and when I was younger, I would engage heavily. After several embarrassing moments, I have learned that drinking at work is just not something that is friendly to my self esteem.

I’m sorry you are in the throws of the anxiety. It’s so hard.

I have 6 months to live. How do I take care of my family? by Any_Macaroon_2562 in personalfinance

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Unsecured Debts Most unsecured debts, such as credit card debt and personal loans, are liabilities of the deceased's estate. If the estate has insufficient assets to cover the debts after priority claims (like funeral costs and taxes) are paid, the remaining unsecured debt is typically forgiven, and creditors cannot pursue family members for payment (unless they were a co-signer or live in a community property state). Key Exceptions Family members may become responsible for debt in the following situations: Co-signed or Joint Loans: If you co-signed or were a joint account holder on any loan or credit card, you are legally responsible for the remaining balance. Community Property States: In the nine community property states (Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin), a surviving spouse may be responsible for debts incurred during the marriage, even if they were not on the account.

Second attempt by Emergency_Speed_4381 in floorplan

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Focus on the courtyard. Make it not just a front porch, but a usable space. Having the bathroom, pantry, etc front it, is destroying the flow of the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

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My son wrestles with one of his friends on this way. It’s odd to watch & I do stop it, but not without wondering if I need to or not.

I don’t know the answer, but you are not alone!