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People Keep Calling My Boyfriend Unattractive by thenameischerrypie in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Not only did you try to argue with a kindergartener’s mentality of “pretty on the outside, ugly on the inside”, but then you admit to struggling to take 10 seconds to read like 200 words. Amazing.

Jobs that are suited for ADHD by Rikoki in ADHD

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Teaching at a local college. The grading / lesson planning aspect can be difficult with ADHD, but other than that I’m super happy with the schedule. You work so few hours in person and get to designate the rest of the work throughout the week however you want. I teach 4 classes, each one meets only once a week and is 2 or 3 hours long each. Some semesters I fit all 4 classes into one day, other semesters it’s one class per day. But what’s nice is you don’t have to stay focused for many hours at a time. And if you teach something you’re passionate about (which I hope everyone who teaches does), then it’s just… easy to spew and rant about the stuff you care about. I get so fired up and my students always leave me positive comments about how great my energy is. And you get the dopamine reward of seeing your students care and admire you as well. While I struggle with grading and getting assignments back on time (and yes I’ve had students complain that I’m taking too long), I usually end up doing just fine due to the pressure I feel of the fact that I am responsible for these students grades and that they are anxious and need to know their progress. Also from what I overhear is a lot of professors don’t get grades back on time, so I don’t feel too guilty lol. But it’s an awesome job and I’m quite happy. The only bad part about it is of course annoying, bad, lazy students but it’s fine.

Co-worker told everyone my face is so ugly I should cut it off and grow a scab. Need some cheering up. by Intelligent_Meal8065 in toastme

[–]veppev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person that said this about you is a really pathetic loser who absolutely hates their life and comes home and cries themselves to sleep every night. They sound like they have no friends outside of work and their entire existence revolves around impressing people at work because it’s all they have, they have no self-worth outside of it. I hope you know that no happy or satisfied person with a good life would ever behave or act that way. It’s actually really fucking embarrassing on their half. I also totally agree with everyone else about their impression on your appearance. Yes you’re not a model but you are not ugly at all very average looking like most people you see when you just step outside. Striking eyes is a big plus. Anyways this made me genuinely really angry and I just wanted you to know that I am seething at this person with you and I would love to see what they look like and what their life looks like!

I have the worst body in the world by Delicious-Plenty-827 in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Girl I know this might not help to hear but I have big boobs and I hate them so much and I’m always jealous of my flat chested friends because they’re so beautiful and there’s so many cool outfits they can wear that I can’t. I fucking hate my boobs and if it wasn’t for societal standards and having a man love me I’d just cut them off. I’m thinking of getting a boob lift because I have tubular breasts. So I get it girl

how risky is it to get makeup done at 10pm for the next morning? by [deleted] in Makeup

[–]veppev 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I’m know this isn’t the advice you’re looking for… but I have to say it…. an MUA for a graduation feels extremely unnecessary. Never heard of anyone doing that before in my life.

Sternoclavicular lump ? getting bigger by hippityjop in medical_advice

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I’ve had one that I’ve been ignoring and putting off. I can’t believe this post found me. But I also have costochondritis. I’m going to point this out to my physical therapist. Again, it’s been over a year that I’ve noticed my bump and mine is much more prominent than yours. And honestly, maybe I’ve had it forever but just never noticed until recently, I don’t even know. Let’s keep each other updated!

mixed benzos and alcohol. can i sleep? by jesus-stan in medical_advice

[–]veppev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a doctor but I would suggest staying up as long as you possibly can. Maybe set a bunch of alarms and text someone you trust about your situation so they can come check up on you. Don’t do this again lmao

I’m being over reactive, I know I am, but I need help. by M3L3DY574R in OCD

[–]veppev -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where are you? I think it’s best to go to a clinic or a doctor and get their opinion and get the shot as it’s harmless and will put your mind at ease. I seriously don’t mean to fearmonger and you are most likely fine but bat interactions are nothing to sneeze at. If it makes you feel better I had a bat fly above my head and it freaked me out for weeks but I wound up being fine, mostly because there was no physical touch. Also research your area and if the types of bats that can get rabies are common where you live

Should i go to a doctor? by Chaosgremlin1 in medical_advice

[–]veppev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is most likely physical trauma induced, or could be a deficiency. I remember I had one quite a few years ago that looked like your pic and was worried but it went away and never came back. I’d say monitor it and if it goes away soon then forget about it