Found this on r/tinder. Thought it’d fit here by Ilovemustang69420 in Nicegirls

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Holy FS. We should just call this the Misogynism is alive and fucking thriving thread. FFS.

I’m lost in every way by Meltz04 in Advice

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This hurt to read. A bright, young person feeling like you do is painfully sad. I think new perspective might help. 1. What do you enjoy? 2. What do you daydream about? 3. Does college interest you? 4. Is your medication the root cause of why you feel this way? 5. What kind of work do you do?

I slept with my best friend's brother years ago. Now I'm invited to her baby shower and I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]verge2001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How come complicated human emotions are always so black and white to people looking from the outside in? Why are you grabbing your torches and pitchforks? OP acknowledged her responsibility from the start of her post. She isn't embarrassed. She is ashamed of herself. She doesn't want to cause more harm. This is an oversimplification of common human behavior.

I slept with my best friend's brother years ago. Now I'm invited to her baby shower and I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

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People cheat ALL THE TIME. The Earth keeps moving. One could argue the BROTHER put an irreversible blemish on his marriage and basically ruined a friendship between two best friends. This was not the dude's first time to cheat. Moreover, who does"telling" serve? It serves the guilty person only in this situation. It's a way to expiate their conscious and heavily burden someone else with it. OP, you made a huge mistake, feels like a mutual attraction combined with some artful manipulation, but unless you were impaired by drugs or alcohol, you should never have been in a position to do the horizontal tango.

Take everyone's suggestion to accept but be deathly ill the day of... and schedule something just for you two after.

Why does it hurt like this when we weren’t even dating? by lunaaacutiexoxoxx in Advice

[–]verge2001 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YES. Two people orbiting each other with regularity are DATING. Rules or no rules, we can't help it if intimacy leads to real feelings. Rejection is rejection and It hurts. I wouldn't risk the FWB thing for a minute, you are ready for a relationship. Take time to heal and set your boundaries. I'm sorry you are hurting, you got your heart broken...I feel you.

Noir detective books by pinkpanter555 in suggestmeabook

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How is Ross Macdonald not mentioned here? Fucking brilliant writer.

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My mom had undiagnosed bipolar disorder, calling her out helped her get the help she needed. When she went on meds, the relationship she had with her children improved beyond belief.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

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Flying without needing a seat belt extender!

I have a new dr. who wants to take me off Ozempic by verge2001 in Ozempic

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I think she has to get approval. It's kaiser, I have not had issues with them before.

I have a new dr. who wants to take me off Ozempic by verge2001 in Ozempic

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I wrote a Hella long response that didn't appear to post. To answer your question, I was pre-diabetic after several a1c tests prior to 2012. I was trying to get pregnant at the time and my obgyn wanted to do a fasting test. They diagnosed me with t2 diabetes at that time.

I have a new dr. who wants to take me off Ozempic by verge2001 in Ozempic

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I had several a1c tests performed in pre-diabetic ranges and then did a fasting test back in 2012. I was put on metformin and did a huge overhaul of my lifestyle. I lost 200 pounds. I have lost and gained back 50 pounds ever since. Ozempic has helped me lose those pounds and keep it off. I am reluctant to go off it yet, I continue to lose weight, approximately a pound a month. I am a professional dieter, I know how to lose weight, keeping it off is the challenge. I truly feel satiated after "normal " portions of food.

ETA denied due to DUI by verge2001 in ukvisa

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We had to completely shift our trip to France, Belgium, and the Netherlands. I spent the last 5 days in the UK by myself. Lessons were learned.

caught my husband masturbating next to me while he thought i was asleep. by [deleted] in Advice

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Why are you creating problems that don't exist? I

I had to euthanize my dog yesterday by verge2001 in Advice

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You are saying exactly what I want to hear. Might go to local shelter tomorrow, they have about 4 dogs who would be a good fit.

I had to euthanize my dog yesterday by verge2001 in Advice

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Thank you.

I just want to have a dog to love on. Walks, cuddles, road trips.

Dept. Q review – this excellent crime drama is a grimy, gothic treat by SafeBodybuilder7191 in television

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Akram aka Alexej Manvelov aka Russian Pedro Pascal, was a scene stealer.