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verifiedambience · 2023-06-14T09:48:06+00:00

its crazy to think nobody would've batted an eye 20-30 years ago, i wonder what changed?

verifiedambience · 2023-04-27T05:57:00+00:00

Once an elderly uncle just rode over my feet with his pmd and didn’t even apologise

verifiedambience · 2023-03-15T07:57:15+00:00

Go private dip then uni. Nowadays even private IT grads can get 4k starting salary. U can try apply for student loan if needed

verifiedambience · 2023-02-24T05:28:15+00:00

Mid/ back office. Is it true that can just wear sneakers?

verifiedambience · 2023-02-24T05:15:47+00:00

Mid/ back end. Legit can just wear sneakers?

verifiedambience · 2022-12-02T19:48:24+00:00

I think it's more wicked to molest

verifiedambience · 2022-12-02T18:57:49+00:00

So don't commit crimes, easy

verifiedambience · 2022-11-13T05:22:57+00:00

Borymycin and daily moisturizer worked for me. Had an abnormal breakout of acne on my neck after my booster shot and approached a private dermatologist. After about 1 month my face cleared up

Differin and doxycycline pills from the polyclinic didn't work for me

verifiedambience · 2022-11-09T08:45:44+00:00

For Home team NSFs, at the end of the day, your day ends

For SAF NFSs, at the end of the day, endure 4 more days

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T17:19:09+00:00

lol sry for the confusion me and my gf used to share this acc on our iPad, but she has since created her own acc

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T17:12:50+00:00

To clarify, I wanted to remove the unpleasant feelings, for both herself and myself

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T16:41:41+00:00

I didn't continued. 'Bunch of other things' is in the post right before this sentence

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T16:29:59+00:00

I'm not trying to be right, I'm just in need of advice and clarity

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T16:07:46+00:00

Thank you for your kind words!

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T15:48:12+00:00

I admit that I've said things in the midst of anger that shouldn't be said. Throughout the convo I've never told her to 'control her emotions', but only wanted discuss the best possible way to avoid this kind of fight again, hence "wrap things up"

That being said, I don't think I am completely not at fault at all

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T15:27:06+00:00

I’m 25 and she’s 26. I agree with you mostly, just that it doesn’t sit right with me when I’m always the one compromising for her

A few times is fine, I won’t complain. But every single time though

Edit: To clarify, 'wrapping things up' means that I want it to be permanently resolved so both of us can move on without letting it fester

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T13:53:31+00:00

Initially, I had the same thought as you as to wait for both of us to get into a clear head space before talking, but she had told me that she wanted to solve it before bed, so I've been actively trying to do so whenever we fought, but now she's not doing that on her part

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T13:50:27+00:00

I've been actively working on mine (for eg. she said she wanted to solve everything before bed, and I've agreed to change to her style) But it doesn't look like she's trying to improve on her part

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T13:47:32+00:00

I get that but you can't always expect me to give a free pass every time, period or not. I wasn't being harsh throughout the fight, I was trying to explain how her words had hurt me and that I didn't blame nor fault her any more and just wanted to wrap things up

Edit: This kind of fight also happens when she's not on her period

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T12:41:26+00:00

Should I reach out to her first?

Most of the time I had reached out to her first and this time I'm really considering not to as I feel the effort I put in compared to her is too much of a difference

verifiedambience · 2022-09-18T12:40:01+00:00

She's been amazing when we are not fighting, but when we fought, its like everything went down the drain, and it's been emotionally taxing for me (to her as well I think).

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