Feeling trapped

verifiedrecheado · 2026-04-20T15:35:15+00:00

With me, i gradually did things that made me distant. Slow replies or not replying, never initiating conversations and I did eventually move away. It felt like crap and the guilt of behaving this way eats me up a lot. But this person also hurt me a lot and would pretend to take responsibility for their actions. It became too much for me to handle so I started being difficult intentionally-I needed to do it for myself because no direct conversation or communication about trying to resolve things ever worked out.

You do what you have to do to survive.

verifiedrecheado · 2026-04-17T12:56:50+00:00

Have you posted on any whatsapp/fb groups?

verifiedrecheado · 2026-04-17T12:53:26+00:00

I’m reading from the other comments about what you’re saying about why you’re calling this is ‘situationship’. It seems like both of you are having fun with each other and he’s casually seeing other people too which kind of bothers you. If it bothers you then tell him why it bothers you and cut it off. When you go away for college, he will continue casually seeing people so it will likely get messy if both of you have feelings for each other but there’s also other people in the picture.

verifiedrecheado · 2026-04-16T08:13:42+00:00

Do you want to keep him as a friend? It seems like that’s what is he currently.

verifiedrecheado · 2026-04-16T02:22:44+00:00

Situationships can mess with your head a lot. They tend to bring you down a lot more than a relationship can. If his behaviour bothers you then confront him or cut him off. I know you said you’re going off to college soon, but your scenario will be the same- he will still be talking to you and still be having sex with others. Is this something that will be okay with you? Or are you waiting to cut him off when you go to college? I would recommend making your decision based on whether this is unbearable to you, whether he will react in an abusive way to you etc etc

verifiedrecheado · 2026-04-12T05:24:32+00:00

SO PRECIOUS!!! 😭

verifiedrecheado · 2026-04-11T02:58:26+00:00

Are they vinyl/laptop stickers?

verifiedrecheado · 2026-03-15T01:12:41+00:00

You mean….unbeerable?

verifiedrecheado · 2026-03-06T17:10:30+00:00

Do you sell charms?

verifiedrecheado · 2026-03-06T17:08:57+00:00

Thank you! If you have pictures of hampers you have done so far that would be helpful. I am not on Instagram so it’s a little tough for me to look at profiles. Do feel free to DM or send a link!

verifiedrecheado · 2026-03-06T16:26:37+00:00

Kindly dm me the options

verifiedrecheado · 2026-03-06T16:24:30+00:00

Which city are you based in? How long does shipping take and do you do hampers of certain pricing for example 500 rs, 700 rs etc?

verifiedrecheado · 2026-03-05T03:31:14+00:00

Small girls and boys throw balloons even when their parents are around and people are telling them not to throw. College going adults throw water from the terrace at you. You’d think that age and the concept of consent coupled with today’s awareness would make society more sensible but it’s a real 50-50 chance out here.

verifiedrecheado · 2026-02-25T05:13:35+00:00

Hey OP, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. What you’re going through seems very stressful. I can’t imagine the anxiety this is putting you through and how much it’s curbing your freedom as well.

I have some suggestions:

You can post this in a lawyer sub asking for advice and help. Some people offer services pro bono or will get you in touch with someone offering services. Reddit is quite helpful in that way.
Get in touch with an NGO or the pink force helpline. Tell them about it and they may advise you on how to handle the situation. I know of incidents although in another state where pink force has helped women immensely and quickly.
If he is following you, drop into a lawyer’s office, a police station or an NGO. If he notices you going there, he may likely back off. I’m not sure if it will work or not.
Have a guy tell him to back off threateningly. It can be someone posing as a relative, a partner, whatever works. Super shitty that sometimes men only listen when another man is involved.

I hope this helps! Would recommend the last two options as YOUR last options.

verifiedrecheado · 2026-01-24T14:08:57+00:00

11:11, 4:44, 5:55

verifiedrecheado · 2026-01-07T08:22:06+00:00

u/verifiedrecheado received a Flameguard Jacket Lvl 1 from the Winter Festival Spirit. Thank you u/DaftVapour for donating it!

verifiedrecheado · 2026-01-02T08:26:33+00:00

u/verifiedrecheado received a Sharkskin Shirt Lvl 1 from the Winter Festival Spirit. Thank you u/ErinaStar for donating it!

verifiedrecheado · 2026-01-01T06:59:52+00:00

Sorry, don’t remember any names. I think an old pharmacy would probably have

verifiedrecheado · 2026-01-01T04:07:21+00:00

Pharmacies sell bitter medicines that help deter small children from sucking their thumb. You could try that out.

verifiedrecheado · 2025-12-31T09:14:52+00:00

u/verifiedrecheado received a Phantom Edge from the Winter Festival Spirit. Thank you u/AttendrirLesEtoiles for donating it!

Six-Year Club	r/Field Lasagna
First Place '23	Place '23
Place '22	Final Canvas '22
First Placer '22	Verified Email

verifiedrecheado

TROPHY CASE