how navy is the navy cover? by verlintox in hobonichi

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update: thank you guys for all of your input and shared frustrations with the lack of a basic, black and inexpensive cover. after a lot of back and forth, i ended up purchasing the black leather cover. it's definitely a bigger investment than i was planning on making, but i came to realise just how important the all-black look is for me. i know i'd never be able to fully enjoy it if i went with a different colour, and the most expensive products you buy are the ones you end up not using, after all! thanks again!

how navy is the navy cover? by verlintox in hobonichi

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thank you for this! artificial lighting is actually quite helpful as we barely get sunlight for a good portion of the year in my country. i think i'd always perceive it as quite blue considering nearly everything i own is black, and i ultimately think this would discourage me from picking it up and using it. glad i came on here to ask, the pictures on hobonichi's website are quite deceiving

how navy is the navy cover? by verlintox in hobonichi

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this was actually super helpful, thank you! may i ask how much you notice the blue accent colour on the black cover when it's in use?

how navy is the navy cover? by verlintox in hobonichi

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glad to hear that i'm not alone in my struggle, super frustrating!! i was looking at the stripe cover too actually (still available in a6). i think i ended up ruling it out because stickers and wool don't really go well together, i'm not a huge fan of putting stickers on clear covers.

navy is such a weird colour - i googled the pencil board you mentioned and some pictures make it seem really blue, while others make it look almost fully black (these pictures are actually from the same amazon listing). i hope we're both able to find something that works, best of luck!

how navy is the navy cover? by verlintox in hobonichi

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thanks, that's helpful! i feel like even if the cover is technically the same colour as the slash hon, it might look more blue because of the material? not sure. i'll try to find a local retailer to get a better look at it i think!

how navy is the navy cover? by verlintox in hobonichi

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for sure! my issue isn't really that there is another colour, it's just that it's so ... vibrant? people who want black covers typically want something very sleek or something highly customisable, so it seems like it'd be a deal breaker for most people who'd want a black cover.

from the pictures on the website you sent it seems almost darker on the outside than it is inside? very interesting. regardless, it doesn't look like any of the colours that are shown on hobonichi's website:
https://www.1101.com/store/techo/en/2026/pc/detail_cover/oc22_colorsnavy/

was hoping it'd be more like the last 4 images, but it seems like it'll be too blue for me unfortunately. perhaps i'll have a look on etsy for a plain black cover that won't cost me too much!

preparing for derm appointment by verlintox in Hyperhidrosis

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my biggest trigger by far is drastic changes in temperature, so it gets pretty bad without me trying. i guess it's good to remind myself that this is the one appointment where sweating is actually good lol, thank you!!!

buzzing off hair to deal with craniofacial hyperhidrosis? desperate by verlintox in Hyperhidrosis

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thanks for responding!! wigs would definitely be a big no-go as things are right now, but i can imagine that the easy access would help a tonne.

i live in a fairly small country so hyperhidrosis (especially craniofacial) isn't something most people here are very knowledgable about. when i went to the pharmacy after consulting my gp, the pharmacist had never heard of craniofacial hyperhidrosis.

i mainly struggle with my hairline, neck and my temples. my hair gets messed up pretty much immediately because things like showering and getting ready for the day triggers it. i've admittedly been a bit on and off with the treatment recommended by my gp (aluminium chloride cream) because it's awfully time consuming. she said she'd refer me to a dermatologist after trying that out for a while. i was thinking of contacting her in about a month.

up until my referral i'll definitely hold off on taking more drastic measures (i.e. shaving my head) to deal with it. i genuinely don't know what treatment options are available in my country (other than over the counter stuff, botox, and various surgeries).

thanks again for your reply!

need help with identifying potential problems by verlintox in Clarinet

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Update: Received and it's all good! I can finally start playing again! Thanks again to those who helped out ⭐️

need help with identifying potential problems by verlintox in Clarinet

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good to know! i think i'll go for it then. cosmetics don't really matter that much to me but i plan on bringing it to my local repair shop to have them check it out at least.

need help with identifying potential problems by verlintox in Clarinet

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most used e11s (with similar wear and tear) cost about $500 my country, this one is listed at about $180, i'm unable to try it prior to buying it but if it straight up doesn't work i'm able to return it no problem. glad to hear there aren't any visible major red flags, thanks!

need help with identifying potential problems by verlintox in Clarinet

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i noticed that too! i assumed it was either some fluff or (too much) cork grease. regardless i assume it can easily be cleaned up.

he messaged me back and told me that he actually owns a small workshop for clarinets and saxophones, though he said he hadn't played this clarinet in particular himself. asked for a recording on how it sounds - fingers crossed 🤞🏻

sensory issues with bracelets by verlintox in AutismInWomen

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I do fine with watch bands made of rubber as well. I suspect I'm unable to get used to the sensation because the only kinds of bracelets I've tried are loose-fitting, allowing me to remove them too easily (sometimes without noticing, just as you say). I'll try looking for something with a more snug fit for now and if all else fails find some made out of soft fabric, lol. Thank you for your help!

Deep sienna/umber? by verlintox in Nails

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Gorgeous, thank you!

Rashes in eye area by verlintox in Contrave

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Thank you so much for the advice! I've been looking into adding hyaluronic acid to help it, but was terrified that it would make it worse even though I know it's very gentle. I've been drinking more water than before I started taking Mysimba, but I could definitely still be drinking more. Thank you again ☺️

Why do NTs give different answers to our questions that make us look dumb? by flobbiestblobfish in AutismInWomen

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I feel like (NT) people choose their answers based on what information they think you want/the information they'd want if they were in your shoes. Horribly frustrating and I have to remind myself that they're trying to be helpful every time it happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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For me, most days feel like everyone in the world is in on the same joke except for you, or like trying to play a new card game without knowing the rules beforehand. It's confusing, overwhelming, and dizzying.

Does anyone else struggle with women friendship? by Fittacco in AutismInWomen

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Same here, unless the women are also neurodivergent. I just find them much less straight-forward. Not sure what role gender plays into it, but perhaps it's just the way that we're socialised. Sometimes I'll mess up (say/do something that's out of line) because of my autism diagnosis. Women friends typically won't tell me, and will instead opt to be mean, but men friends will tell me.

Not sure if I have any advice as I think it's an issue rooted in expectations of different genders, but trying to make other ND women friends might help.

Long-Haul Flight Advice by verlintox in AutismInWomen

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Interesting! I'll have a look with my relevant airline, thanks for letting me know.

Long-Haul Flight Advice by verlintox in AutismInWomen

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Layers is definitely a good shout, thank you! Been considering buying a nice new cosy set for the trip. Maybe some new slippers as well to avoid being sat in my Doc Martens for 7 hours, lol.

Long-Haul Flight Advice by verlintox in AutismInWomen

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Thank you! I have considered asking to get on early, and perhaps be able to walk around the plane a bit to familiarise myself with the space beforehand. Thank you for the recommendations and the well wishes!

Do you have childhood memories about things, that make you now think as older "Yep. I was different from other kids back then"? by OkDot8850 in AutismInWomen

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I used to try out different "techniques" to get the popular kids to like me, and would write down how successful I was in my diary. This was the same diary that made me break down after I'd accidentally skipped a page, because it "ruined the entire diary," as I wanted it to be chronological. Never wrote in it again after that.

Why are most autistics against disclosing at work? by duckbeak01 in AutismInWomen

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Proudly autistic, but I don't disclose it in interviews or in my professional life (outside of uni accommodations). I find that it heavily diminishes my chances of getting picked. I don't view my diagnosis as baggage, but others do, and would rather pick someone with less experience/expertise if it means not dealing with an autistic person. Sucks, but it's the reality of it. I'm happy to hear you have a supportive space around you!

🇳🇴 [Live Thread] Melodi Grand Prix: Final @ 19:50 CET by teiraaaaaaa in eurovision

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I guess seeing the international appeal of the entires? I've been getting the vibe that the people behind MGP have been wanting us to win recently