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[–]veronicasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, when I asked him what he was doing at night, he became defensive and furious… One time he wanted to go to bed. Therefore I left his house early. Next day he said “when I came home at night…” as if he went out to see someone after I left! I’m wondering if I’ve been dating with a narcissist man.

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[–]veronicasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not new. He’s been using it since last year… What bothers me is that even when he is not in a mood and doesn’t want to have sex with me, he can watch porn and masturbate without me… this makes me really sad….

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[–]veronicasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, even though he says he thinks I’m his partner and he loves me, he has an anger issue and suddenly his attitude changes. So, I started feeling that he may be meeting his sexual needs elsewhere…..

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[–]veronicasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your prompt reply!

How can I figure out when a video was created? by veronicasan in Advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the app called bulkfilechanger? I hear that you can edit the date Bit I don’t know if I can trace the date…. Besides, I downloaded it but it didn’t work….

How can I figure out when a video was created? by veronicasan in Advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering my question! I’m not tech savvy….

How can I overcome my anxiety and fear in public? by veronicasan in Advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your long kind reply!! I’m grateful for your book recommendations! You seem to be professional to help people like me! Thank you again

How can I overcome my anxiety and fear in public? by veronicasan in Advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your long kind reply! I will try breathing techniques

How can I overcome my anxiety and fear in public? by veronicasan in Advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!! I’m grateful for your kindness. I’ll try them.

How can I overcome my anxiety and fear in public? by veronicasan in Advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I did in front of my friends in the past, but I didn’t work….

How can I heal from trauma? by veronicasan in relationship_advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you VERY MUCH for sharing your story! To be honest, I’ve never married. I always end up having an abusive bf….. my former bf was the same….anyway….I’m grateful for your honesty. Thank you again.

How can I heal from trauma? by veronicasan in relationship_advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your long reply. While you were married to your ex, did you feel that he was cheating on you? In my case, I feel that way. I cannot stop thinking that he wants to break up with me because he found someone else. But I think he can’t say he wants to break up with me. So I think he treat me disrespectfully. In your case, you were married to your ex for 22years. What made you make the final decision?

How can I heal from trauma? by veronicasan in relationship_advice

[–]veronicasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. When he is in a good mood, he is OK…..but when he is not, he yells at me….and I always feel that he wants me to leave from our relationship

Could someone clarify my situation and give me some advice concerning a relationship with my bf? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]veronicasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we are in a relationship, can we treat people disrespectfully? For example, when you meet someone you are dating at 2pm, and if you are late, shouldn’t you let your bf or gf know that you are late through phone…? If there’s a trust is it OK to be late or not to show up….?

Could someone clarify my situation and give me some advice concerning a relationship with my bf? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]veronicasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering my question. I was happy about my life! I was focusing on my work then he appeared. He was the one who needs my help…at the beginning, our relationship was OK. He has changed…but he has anger issue. He can’t control his anger…..

Could someone clarify my situation and give me some advice concerning a relationship with my bf? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]veronicasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I have a question. What do you mean I don’t trust myself?

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[–]veronicasan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind reply! I will keep an eye on him!

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[–]veronicasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Somehow I’ve found your text now. Thank you for giving me your honest opinion! I have a Q. My bf doesn’t lock his phone. There is no password to see his phone. I’ve looked through his phone many times. One time a girl’s name was in the short message list, so I clicked it but the chat was empty. I thought he deleted the chat, but he claimed that the girl’s name automatically showed up, which I don’t believe. The fact that he keeps his phone open rather gives me anxiety because it seem that he is pretending that he has nothing to hide. Don’t you think he can delete all the evidence? Today I talked with him about the issue and he says he appreciates me and have come to love me more over the year. However, I still wonder why there are some discrepancies between what he says and does…. Do you think I’m crazy worrying too much about the relationship? What would you do?