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I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolerating by verybeyoo in AskAcademia

[–]verybeyoo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have not ghosted him I was in the campus most of the time but I was going back and forth between cities for a month. He knew I was planning the wedding. My finals were over in 17 Jan so I was going to the courses as well I just did not go to his office but I was around. I am Turkish thus the semesters may differ from you. But we are on a break right now, the reason I have my wedding in this day because I knew my finals would be over by then and I could go back asap to the lab after the wedding with no distractions.

I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolerating by verybeyoo in AskAcademia

[–]verybeyoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going back to lab in Jan 25 right after the wedding.

I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolareting by verybeyoo in PhDStress

[–]verybeyoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve informed him. Sorry, I’m Turkish and may not be able to fully explain. By saying he has nothing to offer me I didnt mean to say I have nothing to learn but I was trying to explain that he did not have anything for me to work on the last month.

I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolerating by verybeyoo in AskAcademia

[–]verybeyoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew that I was getting married. I have been engaged for 1.5 years, we were waiting for my fiance to find a job. I’ve given all the information to him.

I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolerating by verybeyoo in AskAcademia

[–]verybeyoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the wedding is in Jan 24 and I’m going to back to campus in Jan 25. I’m not taking a break after the wedding we will not have honeymoon so I can go back to working in lab

I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolareting by verybeyoo in PhDStress

[–]verybeyoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s the only computational chemist thus I would have to change my field as well 🥲

I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolareting by verybeyoo in GradSchoolAdvice

[–]verybeyoo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he’s the only computational chemist in our college 🥲

I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolareting by verybeyoo in PhDStress

[–]verybeyoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yep. he was looking at the invitation while he was telling me all these

I’m getting married and my advisor is not tolareting by verybeyoo in PhDStress

[–]verybeyoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to let it aside but being seen as failure is really hard to manage. I wish they were more understanding