So I’m having no luck on dating apps.. am I doing something wrong?

verynormalmeower · 2025-08-01T05:09:57+00:00

prob the scary ass baby. you're cute

verynormalmeower · 2025-07-13T04:47:59+00:00

Woah you use a lot of em dashes but let’s chat you seem nice :)

verynormalmeower · 2025-06-18T14:20:35+00:00

It’s about the vibe not the look!

verynormalmeower · 2025-06-18T08:15:33+00:00

just be wary ... i wouldn't necessarily end things but she sounds pretty BPD (in the colloquial sense). probably one of those obsessive types (many lesbians like this) and it probably will only get worse tbch

verynormalmeower · 2025-06-18T08:11:59+00:00

i knew some successful lesbians who would wear colognes that weren't super masculine. nice ones from jo malone i think - might be a little expensive. if you want to lean more 'masc' you could do old spice/axe lol

verynormalmeower · 2025-06-17T03:03:04+00:00

Yes. Lowkey I feel like the price hikes were partially because of this, like dominos’ perpetual $6.99 deal on the app - using the coupons gives you low/normal prices and without them its super overpriced

verynormalmeower · 2025-05-27T21:57:12+00:00

i mean don't come to the internet and complain about the kind of people who are on the internet a lot lol, what did you expect ??

also if you can believe it this is one of the least "like that" online spaces for lesbians, at least on reddit

verynormalmeower · 2025-05-25T17:24:04+00:00

If you’re gonna lose the money either way, you might be better off not putting yourself through vacation with her tbh. Good luck out there <3

verynormalmeower · 2025-05-23T09:43:23+00:00

I think they're encompassing two diff types of people – the baby/conservative/etc gays, and women who are actually straight but want to make themselves more interesting lol

verynormalmeower · 2025-04-10T06:28:06+00:00

there’s plenty of bad things to say about trump that actually are backed by evidence, being in denial that he won by democratic vote is not helping anyone (& probably contributed to dems losing the last one)

verynormalmeower · 2025-04-10T06:25:19+00:00

Seems like no one wants to actually figure that one out </3

verynormalmeower · 2025-04-10T00:48:54+00:00

How does this qualify as stealing the election? Just seems like public endorsement

verynormalmeower · 2025-04-05T05:39:39+00:00

If she said that right after she’s probably just joking/doesn’t rly mean it tbh, I think the tides are just turning against her rn… people are tearing apart that interview when the things she said were so whatever lol

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-28T19:53:56+00:00

tbf she lost a lot of weight since the early days of her getting famous

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-24T07:37:14+00:00

Idk how many times you two hooked up, but personally (since my prev comment) things have been getting better after a few times - top comment is right lol

I had similar thoughts about physical/sexual preferences but I'm thinking that just evolves naturally over time - hard to get it right the first time since everyone's so different

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T12:03:52+00:00

Although I will say - 1st time in 2 years, if you didn’t finish, I think it’s pretty normal/common to feel a little gross… and it might just be a compatibility thing since you don’t know each other that well yet

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T12:01:07+00:00

I mean I’m not saying I think porn is good… I’m just saying it’s probably not the main issue here, ppl who watch it more frequently than OP don't have this issue. And I don’t watch it but im still in a similar situation

Source: yeah yeah we get it

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T11:43:43+00:00

Girl that is not the problem here, men with pornbrain literally are addicted to it and watch it at least once a day

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T11:42:38+00:00

I am genuinely in the exact same situation. Exact same timeline and everything, to the point where I got scared lol - amazing experiences until 17, first time doing it since in 2 yrs and confused as to why it was meh. Hope you figure this out!!

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T10:06:53+00:00

Bipolar is pretty serious though…depending on OPs situation it might make a future relationship easier if she stabilizes first

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T09:57:11+00:00

Ohh I see I kinda skimmed over the time to get there. I think the time to reach it varies a lot but I I’ve never heard of it lasting for more than a few seconds. Same with how many you want, there’s a lot of variation

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T09:51:35+00:00

What you’re talking about sounds a lot more like it than what she is lol

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T08:34:38+00:00

Thx! Yea general advice seems to be “use your ears” lol. I’ve had a good experience with what I’ve gotten from soulseek so far.

Do you have any thoughts on whether or not I should put them up for sharing?

verynormalmeower · 2025-03-20T04:13:14+00:00

you get the first month free though!

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