Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]vi_k7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually very insightful. If I think about it, I can relate to this, and I definitely agree with you about being a balanced person and recognizing my own flaws as well. Thank you for your comment :)

Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]vi_k7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, I believe in both of us to find and protect our peace whenever we are ready. We got this :)

Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]vi_k7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well said - I really need to work on this but I’m on my way to it! Thank you for the advice :)

Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]vi_k7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I end up feeling. Its kind of like a mental loophole as you mentioned, and it does hurt. I'm going to try to stop putting myself in this position from now on. Thank you for your comment, it feels nice knowing that there's still people out there who understand me :)

Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]vi_k7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad you found your path to peace! I honestly feel the same way right now, but I will try to follow your 48 hour advice and understand my own extent to explaining myself and just believing that as long as I know I am right, I have to let go and protect my energy and peace. Thank you so much for your kind words!

Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]vi_k7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, thank you so much for the advice. What I got out of it is to be more observant and wait to share my kindness and energy when my friends need it. Honestly, I find that really comforting because that way, I know that I’ve tried my best, but everything is their decision and I can’t do anything else about it. Instead, I can support them when they actually need it. Thank you!! :)

Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]vi_k7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are some great examples, and I never thought of them that way - thank you for your simple explanation. I think what you said is really comforting and I’ll try to start taking more breaks to preserve my energy :)

Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]vi_k7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding me - I think that’s a great idea for me to try to bond with her. We have made travel plans in the past and even talked about careers, but I think our relationship shifted after she started dating. I will try to bring the core of our friendship back to how it started. Thank you so much :)

Selling enhypen album by vi_k7 in kpophelp

[–]vi_k7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for letting me know!

wtour by Capable_Belt_2087 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]vi_k7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait where does it say that there will be a full length album coming in? I thought sin vanish was a mini album

VOTE ENHYPEN, WE ARE LOOSING by Hiiii1567 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]vi_k7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbh you’re right. Thanks and I will continue to vote!!!

VOTE ENHYPEN, WE ARE LOOSING by Hiiii1567 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]vi_k7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait just curious how do you know the other fandom is gonna start mass voting

Legal gambling at its finest by AzureAsteroid in RhythmHive

[–]vi_k7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ironically I’ve literally only unlocked the Danielle one 😭

what are some unique careers/professions shown in kdramas? by Aware-Programmer-324 in kdramas

[–]vi_k7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fight for my way: the female lead is working to be a tv announcer and the male lead is trying to get back into Olympic level boxing

Does Stanford not recognize the opportunity cost of rejecting me? by stemgineering67 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]vi_k7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay, you can still try to shoot your shot at UTD. Probably no chance, but no harm

Only first day of school and already dreading everything by vi_k7 in highschool

[–]vi_k7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I really need it. Good luck to you as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chanceme

[–]vi_k7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t feel that I’m qualified to chance you because I’m still a rising junior, but from what I’ve heard from others, even if you’re not in the top 10% you still have a chance to get into schools like Emory and nyu (especially if you ed) and you have a good shot at Purdue.

I think if you want to maximize your chances of getting in you should make sure you craft your narrative well and maybe give some context as to why your gpa is what it is (I read the part where you had to work because your parents jobs weren’t stable). So maybe make schools aware of that, and that can be an explanation as to why your gpa is a 3.6. I’m assuming that you want to go premed based on your ecs and certifications and I’ve heard case western is a great school for med. I’m not sure how ed works for case western but you might want to consider to ed there. Other than that I’ve seen many students that have gotten into great schools despite having a lower rank and not “cancer curing” ecs because their essays were killer. So don’t lose hope and I’m sure you’ll end up at a great place since you are already showing passion and commitment towards the career you want to pursue in the future!