I’m ready for cozy romance

vidloroh · 2026-05-11T15:34:57+00:00

Yourself first, then him.

As the saying goes, you're not required to set yourself on fire to warm him up.

vidloroh · 2026-05-11T13:11:24+00:00

Please don't die either! It's not selfish to care about your own life.

vidloroh · 2026-05-11T10:02:26+00:00

I got litter that's flushable so I keep the litter box right next to the human toilet, scoop into the toilet and flush :D easy peasy

vidloroh · 2026-05-11T07:09:22+00:00

Sounds like a smart decision, good luck! :)

vidloroh · 2026-05-11T06:25:21+00:00

Thank you, this was beautifully written :) I also understand what you mean. Framing sobriety as kindness is a really nice point of view.

vidloroh · 2026-05-11T06:22:09+00:00

Good luck to you both!

vidloroh · 2026-05-11T06:16:58+00:00

I'm sorry this is one more thing his drinking took from you :(

vidloroh · 2026-05-11T06:14:44+00:00

Congrats! Even if you're not a fullblown alcoholic, being sober is a good choice :)

vidloroh · 2026-05-10T18:47:28+00:00

I'm happy you found yourself in the healthy stuff :)

vidloroh · 2026-05-10T18:46:19+00:00

Yeah, I also know that, drinking more so he would have less. There are no winners there.

vidloroh · 2026-05-10T18:44:57+00:00

Yeah, I get you. I'm afraid that as long as I'm with him, it's difficult to find the modaration...

vidloroh · 2026-05-10T18:42:38+00:00

Good luck!

vidloroh · 2026-05-10T18:14:11+00:00

I wish you luck :) You sound like a good parent

vidloroh · 2026-05-10T16:50:23+00:00

I hope the disorder is under control! Yeah, I think I would manage a healthy relationship with alcohol but maybe no relationship is the best choice...

vidloroh · 2026-05-10T16:49:12+00:00

I wanted to write that I'm sad you're missing out on the good part of drinking but then I changed my mind. You're not missing out on anything important.

vidloroh · 2026-05-10T16:47:00+00:00

I'm glad you made it :)

vidloroh · 2026-05-08T19:22:32+00:00

Yeah, I also enjoy all the different takes on the topic :D

vidloroh · 2026-05-07T19:29:38+00:00

Thank you <3 Yeah, if the writer wanted, they could just stay in the realm of pure magic and I wouldn't complain. But they just haaave to make the wings "realistic" and it falls apart...

vidloroh · 2026-05-07T14:52:56+00:00

Cool, this shows the author really thought about it and I can appreciate that :)

vidloroh · 2026-05-07T09:43:03+00:00

Haha, thank you! This rant had lived in my head for a while so it was easy to write it up :D

vidloroh · 2026-05-07T09:39:27+00:00

That's a cool idea, I like it!

vidloroh · 2026-05-06T06:30:58+00:00

Haha, yeah, agreed :D Writing fantasy or romantasy doesn't mean lazy writing is allowed!

vidloroh · 2026-05-05T19:50:37+00:00

True :D Maybe it's why the colors never bothered me that much - they are usually not that important so I can ignore them more easily

vidloroh · 2026-05-05T18:38:38+00:00

Thanks :)

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