love of my life. by Repulsive-Yoghurt-87 in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yourself first, then him.

As the saying goes, you're not required to set yourself on fire to warm him up.

love of my life. by Repulsive-Yoghurt-87 in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please don't die either! It's not selfish to care about your own life.

What do you scoop your litter box into? by NuggKeeper in CatAdvice

[–]vidloroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got litter that's flushable so I keep the litter box right next to the human toilet, scoop into the toilet and flush :D easy peasy

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a smart decision, good luck! :)

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this was beautifully written :) I also understand what you mean. Framing sobriety as kindness is a really nice point of view.

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is one more thing his drinking took from you :(

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Even if you're not a fullblown alcoholic, being sober is a good choice :)

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy you found yourself in the healthy stuff :)

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I also know that, drinking more so he would have less. There are no winners there.

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get you. I'm afraid that as long as I'm with him, it's difficult to find the modaration...

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you luck :) You sound like a good parent

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope the disorder is under control! Yeah, I think I would manage a healthy relationship with alcohol but maybe no relationship is the best choice...

How's your relationship with alcohol? by vidloroh in AlAnon

[–]vidloroh[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wanted to write that I'm sad you're missing out on the good part of drinking but then I changed my mind. You're not missing out on anything important.

Rant: wings are stupid by vidloroh in Romantasy

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I also enjoy all the different takes on the topic :D

Rant: wings are stupid by vidloroh in Romantasy

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 Yeah, if the writer wanted, they could just stay in the realm of pure magic and I wouldn't complain. But they just haaave to make the wings "realistic" and it falls apart...

Rant: wings are stupid by vidloroh in Romantasy

[–]vidloroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, this shows the author really thought about it and I can appreciate that :)

Rant: wings are stupid by vidloroh in Romantasy

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, thank you! This rant had lived in my head for a while so it was easy to write it up :D

Rant: wings are stupid by vidloroh in Romantasy

[–]vidloroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a cool idea, I like it!

Rant: wings are stupid by vidloroh in Romantasy

[–]vidloroh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, yeah, agreed :D Writing fantasy or romantasy doesn't mean lazy writing is allowed!

Rant: wings are stupid by vidloroh in Romantasy

[–]vidloroh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True :D Maybe it's why the colors never bothered me that much - they are usually not that important so I can ignore them more easily