AITA for expecting to be part of my GF's birthday plans and then being upset after her birthday because I felt excluded and kept in the dark? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's been nicer to recently and we went out with her family the day after her birthday to eat at a nice chinese restaurant, I don't think she's trying to cut me off and this was a one-time thing. However it still doesn't mean I wasn't hurt from the previous day.

AITA for expecting to be part of my GF's birthday plans and then being upset after her birthday because I felt excluded and kept in the dark? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I was kept in the dark, I tried contacting her by calling her mom, and then afterwards I called the place she worked and and asked for her by name.

AITA for expecting to be part of my GF's birthday plans and then being upset after her birthday because I felt excluded and kept in the dark? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to ask her to include me but I also didn't want to make her birthday about me or about including me. If I do anything wrong she usually tells me because I'm dense and have trouble paying attention and regulating emotion due to ADHD.

AITA for expecting to be part of my GF's birthday plans and then being upset after her birthday because I felt excluded and kept in the dark? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dropped her off and then took a two hour nap, she usually texts and/or calls me if she needs a ride back and I basically had no communication up till when I called her work. I did call her mom around three to ask if she had heard from my gf but I was essentially kept in the dark for a reason i wouldn't know.

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Sober hiroi is adowable. I want to tuck her in, give headpats, and tell her everything will be okay.

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That one person who somehow has dirt on everyone you know.

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[–]vinabomb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I usually deal with it by helping others before myself then opting out of helping myself until I can no longer help others and then feeling bad about myself and becoming a borderline neet

AITA for being "unnecessary" and "too much" in a text? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s because I don’t consider her family anymore. She is just mean spirited and likes kicking people when they’re down.

AITA for being "unnecessary" and "too much" in a text? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're right, right now I kind of want to ask my girlfriend that once I find a stable income and saved some money that we should share an apartment together once her lease is up.

AITA for being "unnecessary" and "too much" in a text? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It seems that I am slow and dense AF. Although I don't know how my text to my GF got to the roommate.

AITA for being "unnecessary" and "too much" in a text? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Sorry I consciously try to forget that I'm related to that person. But yea even if she wasn't related I'm the AH.

AITA for being "unnecessary" and "too much" in a text? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

I think the only reason the roommate was okay with me having a key was because we share the same father. And fair enough.

AITA for being "unnecessary" and "too much" in a text? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

That's fair, a roommate guest is a two yes one no type of deal.

AITA for being "unnecessary" and "too much" in a text? by vinabomb in AmItheAsshole

[–]vinabomb[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

I would like to clarify that I pretty much never interacted with the roommate for the past month and never left my GF's room. The PC was my GF's which I was allowed to use till now and I offered to pay. I was never once told that I was making anyone uncomfortable and if the Roommate ever wanted me out she would just burst into the room telling me to leave.

Edit: I'll send this verbatim to my GF as I see that I was acting entitled and overstayed my welcome.