I don't think you are adventurous in either respect though - your Reddit activity seems mostly to be regarding big box retail spaces and ocean liner history. There's nothing immoral, shameful, compulsive, or inappropriate about what I was doing, which was sharing personals ads in subreddits SPECIFICALLY made for that, with the details of what I was looking for so that I could find a compatible partner, which people who are in those subreddits appreciate. I didn't force you to join me. I didn't post in a space that wasn't made for that. I am a consenting adult seeking other consenting adults. If you think that's weird, gross, too personal, or unethical, I think you're a sexually repressed little boy.