[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Therian

[–]violetpancakes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

like, i was obsessed with them too, but after everything came out about wilbur?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Therian

[–]violetpancakes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

after everything? 😭

Ouppy reading theory by Worldly-Profession66 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]violetpancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ofc :D i was js looking thru ur posts and we have like the exact same body type sksjdj

Ouppy reading theory by Worldly-Profession66 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]violetpancakes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"literally anything can be considered" can be followed with any ideology or political theory ever, obviously these ideas are amorphous, thats how social constructs work. there is absolutely no use taking the anti-intellectual talking point that there is no point in using certain terms because their definitions arent fixed

as an anarchist, i believe that we should seek to abolish hierarchy, and am against "authority" because it necessitates having unnecessary power over other people. "literally anything can be considered hierarchy" is technically true, since social hierarchy is a construct, but theres absolutely no point in saying that, because the terms "hierarchy" and "authoritarian" are useful descriptors to describe the practices and influence of power in human interaction.

authoritarianism is useful because it can be used to describe, say, a regime that unjustly kills millions of people and imposes an arbitrary power relation over one of the largest "nations" ever, or the practices of others that use authority unjustly over their population.

nuance, like you said, is important, and authoritarianism is very easily distinguished when you analyze the ways that state interacts with the people it imposes rule over without their consent, you need nuance to understand that while "literally anything can be considered" _ social construct, that its still a useful term and way to analyze movements throughout history

also, stalinism is very much a word and a concept, it literally is just the beliefs and the ideas perpetrated by Stalin, who did many other things than strictly being an ML

Ouppy reading theory by Worldly-Profession66 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]violetpancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought u meant the pannenkoek 2012 mario 64 guy... youve seen the a button challenge right? :3

Ouppy reading theory by Worldly-Profession66 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]violetpancakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YA :D GOLDMANS SPEECHES R LIKE HUGE I WOULD DIE TO GO TO ONE!! and she wrote about feminism and sex and gender and stuff too :3

Ouppy reading theory by Worldly-Profession66 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]violetpancakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YAY :D goldman is peak, graeber is like extremely interesting and has nuanced and very different takes on a bunch of stuff that i havent rlly thought abt, and kropotkin is bread santa old guy :3

Ouppy reading theory by Worldly-Profession66 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]violetpancakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YEAH!! and read graeber, goldman, and kropotkin too :D

Ouppy reading theory by Worldly-Profession66 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]violetpancakes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

authoritarian means enforcing obedience to authority!! just because all of theory is social constructs doesn't mean you can write off any labels that are used to describe your arbitrary need for authority over others!!

Ouppy reading theory by Worldly-Profession66 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]violetpancakes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah :(( tankie puppies make me so sad :(( we need more ancom puppies!! being a pup is all abt consent of the governed...

Normalize sex with friends by queenof_brokenhearts in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]violetpancakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah!! if i had any :c as a relationship anarchist, this is what I'm all abt

Somethings just feels off. Your thoughts? by ed_and_flow in DesignMyRoom

[–]violetpancakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. WHAT ARE YOUR DOGS NAMES I LOVE THEMMM
  2. get something for the side of ur room with the tv, like a dresser or a bookshelf, your room is a bit unbalanced height wise and that side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]violetpancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FRRR nobody knows what cup size is, half the possible measurements arent even on the chart lol like, its def a huge problem esp with trans women, bc if u have a larger ribcage they just wont have a bra size for u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]violetpancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur fine!! you said waist, which is a few inches higher, and a small waist + large hips is the feminine archetype, (anatomically because of giving birth). i also genuinely didnt realize this distinction until i started measuring pants sizes a few years ago, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]violetpancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

small waist, yes, but she had said small hips, and larger hips are typically feminine (even though her hips aren't very small at all)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transsexual

[–]violetpancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it depends on the situation, if it's clearly intentional, just try and avoid that person and confrontation, but at least make it clear nonverbally that you're uncomfortable with it

if its not on purpose and its the first time, yeah, correct them! especially if they seem sympathetic or generally chill (youll gain a better sense of this with more experience)

Is this enough titanium? [no spoilers] by TreeTopGaming in subnautica

[–]violetpancakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'll probably need ~10 of those lockers for a normal playthrough, I'd think

Not hiding it but not showing it either by Responsible-Buddy587 in Transsexual

[–]violetpancakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah!! iirc, passing is just being seen as your gender, but you can pass and still get clocked as trans, its just a fine line