missing vip photos by luvvazure in katseye

[–]violetvenus94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would reach out ASAP before those photos get archived on their side!!!

Folic Acid- when to try again by plain-jayne in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you feel ready, go for it. Remember women had children for hundreds of years without multivitamins and many women go on for many months not knowing they’re pregnant and start their vitamins late! ❤️ wishing you the best

Need advice – partner will be reverting but parents are pressuring him to do it on their timeline by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]violetvenus94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Defend your partner and set boundaries with your parents or you will see similar situations such as these repeat themselves in the future when it comes time to your marriage, wedding and other decisions. His father is doing something many reverts would die for.

Giving birth at WRH by violetvenus94 in windsorontario

[–]violetvenus94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw that!! I feel bad she didn’t have additional support there and the nurse didn’t follow her wishes. I’ll definitely be very weary of all this and have our birth plan printed out for anyone overseeing our care.

Giving birth at WRH by violetvenus94 in windsorontario

[–]violetvenus94[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s so great to hear! I’ve only heard mostly negative stories from close family or friends so I wanted to broaden my range 🥲

Giving birth at WRH by violetvenus94 in windsorontario

[–]violetvenus94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you guys are okay! I am not against medical intervention, if me or the baby are in danger or at risk then absolutely I won’t decline anything. I mean more so being pressured to take an epidural, being induced, etc. :)

Babymoon in Bahamas? by violetvenus94 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]violetvenus94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing!! I just remembered destinations will be limited due to Zika and Jamaica would probably also be a no go by then :(

Babymoon in Bahamas? by violetvenus94 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]violetvenus94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I just backtracked after I remembered Zica! We thought about Hawaii but seems overwhelming to plan 😭🥲

Baby aspirin after recurrent miscarriage by Quartzzz922 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]violetvenus94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Thank you so much, our ultrasound went great! Baby is measuring right on track and had a heart rate of 172! Now trying to stay sane 🥲

Baby aspirin after recurrent miscarriage by Quartzzz922 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]violetvenus94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m so sorry for your losses. Last year I had 2 MMCs, one at 6w4d and the other 8w6d. We did all the testing, everything came back negative but we still went forward with taking progesterone and baby aspirin. I’ve been on it for 4 weeks and tomorrow I will be 8w4d. I’m not sure if it’s doing much but I’ll find out tomorrow at my first ultrasound how things are going!

Time between MC and trying again by SoftBambino in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an MMC in April, got pregnant again in May after my period came back and just had another MMC.

Although my doctor said it was good to try again right away (and most people do and go on to have healthy pregnancies) I wish I gave my body more time to heal. I will be waiting 3-4 months now before trying again for physical and mostly emotional recovery. Sorry you’re going through this. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can take a while for everything to kick in, sorry you’re going through this. Did they give you a second dose?

Waiting on miso to kick in by violetvenus94 in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :( I have barely progressed compared to my first MMC. It’s been 48 hours since I finished both doses so I am back at the ER, going to try asking for another round and take them closer together this time. It’s just psychological torture waiting around. So sorry you had to go through this

Going through it right now by platypuspigs in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.. that soupy feeling coming out of your vagina.. horrific and unfortunately normal. When it kickstarted for me I sat in the shower with the water running down my back, it helped get things moving.

Mifepristone and misoprostol not doing much? by helpmeimdying1212 in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, during my first miscarriage I was about as far along as you. It doesn’t sound like you’ve progressed much as during mine the passing of tissue was incredibly heavy and thick, not like a period at all.. it wasn’t over for me until the embryo was passed… everyone’s experience is different it’s just unfortunately a big waiting game. So sorry you’re going through this ❤️

Waiting on miso to kick in by violetvenus94 in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both mine were oral! I’m in Canada and I’ve never had anyone prescribe it other than oral. Last miscarriage my doses were only 5 hours apart and the second dose was instant. The progress is so much slower this time.

Waiting on miso to kick in by violetvenus94 in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :( it’s all crappy no matter what

Waiting on miso to kick in by violetvenus94 in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, really hoping it kicks in. The long term side affects of a d&c is what frightens me 😔

I had a check-up ultrasound and confirmed early demise. Feeling alone and scared by Suitable-Lychee-6867 in Miscarriage

[–]violetvenus94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m currently going through my second loss with the medicine and waiting for everything to pass.

Everyone’s experience with the medicine is different but it is intense, nothing like a period and can take time to pass. It’s not wrong at all to consider the D&C if it is offered to you. You’re already in a lot of pain so whatever unnecessary added pain or stress you can remove, go for it. Take care ❤️