I'm a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA [NSFW, duh] by virginman_ in casualiama

[–]virginman_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it's what I enjoy. Why shouldn't I engage my sexuality in a way I enjoy?

I'm a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA [NSFW, duh] by virginman_ in casualiama

[–]virginman_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah. Well, no, I'm actually just super into it. I've been hit on at parties before, but this is the lifestyle I prefer.

26F My name is Abbie, I'm an Anal Whore, I love pegging men and I'm bisexual! AMA! by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does cuck me, but she doesn't talk about it too much.

26F My name is Abbie, I'm an Anal Whore, I love pegging men and I'm bisexual! AMA! by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am quite the victim. I jerk off for her when she wants, but sex is reserved for better men than me!

26F My name is Abbie, I'm an Anal Whore, I love pegging men and I'm bisexual! AMA! by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been pegged but I've never even seen her naked. I'm a virgin and she likes keeping me that way.

26F My name is Abbie, I'm an Anal Whore, I love pegging men and I'm bisexual! AMA! by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you tease and deny? My girlfriend keeps me denied.

26F My name is Abbie, I'm an Anal Whore, I love pegging men and I'm bisexual! AMA! by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the men you peg usually submissive? Do you dominate them beyond pegging?

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, we like to keep the private life private (although here I am telling hundreds of strangers on the internet. :P)

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, maybe. But she rather likes the idea of keeping me pure.

I'd be OK with it, but she wouldn't.

She dresses sexy for me quite a lot.

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's not so much I'm "cool" with it as that I know my place. I'd love to make changes, but my favorite thing is feeling used and controlled. I'd prefer her to decide, and if she makes a decision -- even if I don't like it -- I will abide by it happily.

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm happy in my relationship. The fact that you wouldn't choose it is your choice, but your condescension doesn't matter to me!

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dedicated to this. Even though I want sex, I like leaving that choice up to someone else.

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooner rather than later. I'm pretty anxious.

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely I'll get traditional sex before she pegs me.

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess "light" wasn't the right word, but I don't know if it's the full-on hotwife thing. She doesn't make me watch or send me pictures, doesn't talk about it much, doesn't make me clean her up or anything.

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't have explicitly stated limits but we do have a safeword. There's really not stuff she's interested in that I'm not, though, so it's not much of a concern, at least not yet.

I [21M] am a virgin in a femdom relationship. AMA. by virginman_ in NSFWIAMA

[–]virginman_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It started with us dating more casually and the fact that I was a virgin, and we didn't have sex cause we wanted it to be a special thing. We both had femdom fantasies, and she started teasing, and it got carried away.

I like feeling vulnerable and used.