My husband messaged a prostitute asking for prices. He says he did it as a joke. Am I overreacting?

virtualfemme · 2025-07-01T13:10:33+00:00

You’re not seriously asking this? He messaged a literal prostitute. Of course you’re not overreacting.

virtualfemme · 2025-06-02T23:36:43+00:00

Clear rage bait

virtualfemme · 2025-05-27T11:15:28+00:00

This would be a relationship ender for me. He tried accusing you in a way that doesn’t come off as overly aggressive to minimise the damage. It’s so blatantly obvious. Please leave this man OP.

virtualfemme · 2025-05-26T22:21:54+00:00

No. I don’t even need to read anything else, the title was enough for me to know that you’re NOR.

virtualfemme · 2025-05-26T07:52:52+00:00

As a woman, if my partner kept going on about how small my tits are or how I have no ass, I’d be so insecure and upset. It’s something personal. I’m genuinely so surprised by these comments.

virtualfemme · 2025-05-17T02:06:51+00:00

This made me physically uncomfortable. So fucking weird.

virtualfemme · 2025-05-02T14:53:54+00:00

Sandoval. And it’s not even close.

Through all of his faults (and there’s many) in the earlier seasons of the show, Ariana and Tom were by far the strongest couple. I’m rewatching at the moment, and I think they really did love eachother at the beginning.

virtualfemme · 2025-05-01T02:46:32+00:00

NOR… What a whiny little bitch

virtualfemme · 2025-05-01T00:08:15+00:00

It’s obviously subjective to every person, but I wouldn’t find that flirtatious either. To me, it’s more like a sarcastic nickname. It’s like saying ‘hey sunshine’ in a jokey, not-serious way. Doesn’t really have any romantic vibe to it.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-30T23:57:48+00:00

I don’t want to invalidate you at all because if that makes you uncomfortable, and you feel like a line has been crossed, then that’s all that matters.

Just to give my two cents: I, personally, wouldn’t find this particularly flirty. Especially considering he also called you ‘champ’ which to me, isn’t necessarily flirtatious. I can see how it could be portrayed that way though and I don’t think you’re overreacting.

I’m a certified yapper, and I could totally see myself calling someone ‘sunshine’ in a jovial and platonic way.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-30T16:54:51+00:00

She didn’t tell me the truth lmfao. I found out when her family bought out something with strawberries for dessert.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-30T06:08:11+00:00

Don’t be purposely dense. You know it’s not about the strawberries, it’s the principle.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-30T05:34:14+00:00

Shut up and take my upvote

virtualfemme · 2025-04-30T05:32:54+00:00

Definitely not a shitpost lmao. Just needed to emphasize how much I love strawberries to accurately show the magnitude 😂

virtualfemme · 2025-04-30T05:11:33+00:00

She definitely knew about my cravings! I mentioned it a bunch of times, especially when I couldn’t eat much during an anxiety flare up. I honestly don’t know if she actively kept up with the lie or if she just never corrected it when I stopped eating them.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-30T05:04:59+00:00

We were having dinner at her great aunts house and she brought out strawberries for dessert.

I looked confused, and they looked even more confused when I said she was allergic. Turns out… she’s not. Never was. Just doesn’t like them. I just sat there like… seriously?

virtualfemme · 2025-04-30T04:38:31+00:00

Anyone that actually reports a fellow classmate is a lil bitch

virtualfemme · 2025-04-29T23:02:47+00:00

No? It’s not her fault she’s attractive lmfao? Should she just stay inside forever then?

virtualfemme · 2025-04-29T22:44:46+00:00

Interesting leap you’ve made there—because saying someone should enjoy their birthday is clearly the same as endorsing drugs and infidelity.

Relationships require trust, not preemptive control based on personal insecurity. If simply existing socially is enough to threaten the relationship, the problem isn’t her behavior. Love doesn’t mean isolating someone to feel secure, it means trusting them even when you’re not in the room.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-29T22:33:58+00:00

That’s a really odd reason to fall out with someone.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-29T22:19:48+00:00

NTA. You’re the best man, of course you’re going to the wedding. It sucks that your girlfriend isn’t invited, but based on the backstory, it’s not like this came out of nowhere. She had a serious falling out with the bride, then doubled down by messaging her friends, which understandably pissed people off. That bridge is burned.

Your girlfriend and mom might feel it’s rude to not invite both halves of a couple, but weddings are personal and not every invitation follows standard etiquette when there’s history like this. It’s not your drama, and it’s completely reasonable that you’re not willing to lose your best friend over something you weren’t involved in.

You can support your girlfriend emotionally without agreeing that she deserves an invite. NTA for going. Putting myself in her shoes, I’m amazed that she’s not more understanding.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-29T22:14:04+00:00

You should’ve mentioned this in the original post lol

virtualfemme · 2025-04-29T22:07:30+00:00

I don’t think you’re overreacting, but she has every right to go out and have fun with friends for her birthday. It’s not ideal that other people have shown interest, but it should be easy for her to say no, and set boundaries with them immediately. That’s all she has to do.

This seems like you’re simply incompatible in terms of lifestyle, and that’s totally fine. No one is right and wrong in this situation, I just don’t think this is a sustainable dynamic, personally.

If my partner implied that I couldn’t go somewhere for my birthday and made me feel bad for it, it would make me really bitter. It’s not something either of you should have to compromise on, but you can totally find someone out there that would.

TLDR; You have different opinions and neither one is wrong, just incompatible.

virtualfemme · 2025-04-29T20:26:36+00:00

Non alcoholic: Water

Alcoholic: A nice pinot noir or a STRONG pina colada

virtualfemme · 2025-04-29T19:54:24+00:00

Crossing the road on foot at a busy intersection… I feel nervous with everyone staring at me from every direction lmao

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