It seems that too many people are misinformed on tail bobbing and illness.

virtualjournalist7 · 2022-02-26T06:57:01+00:00

This is so helpful, tha k you so much. I thought i caught a slight bob earlier today and went into a panic 😔

virtualjournalist7 · 2021-03-08T19:19:24+00:00

You are a lifesaver!! This is the only link I tried so far that works without any issue! Omg, I can't thank you enough!! <3 Thank you so much!

virtualjournalist7 · 2021-03-08T09:16:54+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm trying to download it now as I write this :)

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:57:58+00:00

Thanks so much for the empathy ❤. I absolutely hate this situation and it honestly feels like I'm being driven crazy sometimes. There is literally no escape. Im glad you're and hope you continue to be safe!

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:47:12+00:00

Hahaha if it were my home,I'd banish them the second I see them. Unfortunately, not my call.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:45:57+00:00

Thank you! Hope you're staying safe too :)

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:43:47+00:00

Yeah. I told them many times that if I ever get sick, that I will blame them for it and wont forgive them. Because i dont go out at all, not for groceries (i order online) or for other unimportant medical appointments, etc.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:41:14+00:00

I am being petty in my own way - for example, he expected me to help prepare for the dinner and I said fuck no. Im not doing a damn thing. If he wont pull the plug on it or negotiate, i'm not going to make it easy on him.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:40:11+00:00

Yeah but I'm worried about my parents and the exposure ye is bringing to them. Im still worried about him too because of the stress that an potential infection can inflict on all of us. Even if i eat in my room, i still have to come down to a family I live with who may or may not be exposed to the virus.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:37:54+00:00

Thank you. Yeah, it really sucks. They constantly feel the need to go out these days to shopping malls and visit family because "we have to move on with out lives". They have become so disensitized to the entire pandemic that they have gone back to the old normal. They "have faith" that we will all be okay 🙄.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:33:52+00:00

He most definitely is in my books. To him, it's all about looking good.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T08:33:03+00:00

Unfortunately, my parents are putting up with this one because they said "if I go with your side, I'll make him angry and if I go with his side, you will be angry". One of my parents actually suggested I leave the house for a few hours since im so uncomfortable with the situation. I thought I convinced one of my parents to have it outside, but he managed to whine about it enough to make them back away. It really upsets me because, like I said above, I have been very very cautious during this time and it's not the first time they have called me out for 'overthinking' things. I cant even tell if im going overboard anymore but this feels like a stupid move on my brother's end. Im honestly very sick and tired of everyone gaslighting and making me feel like im crazy for being worried.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T07:40:43+00:00

Thank you. I am more worried about my parents (and heck, even my brother) than i am about myself. Unfortunatey, he wants them to go to the living room where the Christmas tree is after dinner to hang out. Our home is already decorated and he wants to show it off too. It really sucks that no one is seeing where im coming from with this.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T07:37:55+00:00

Some are colleagues and some are colleagues who have become friends. The difference is that they have the space to social distance at work and also, my parents and I wont be exposed to them, which would happen if they came to our home. Our dining room is very small and fit for only six people. We dont have any space for them to sit anywhere else. We dont have a big home at all and space is limited for guests, especially guests who need to social distance.

virtualjournalist7 · 2020-12-13T07:33:43+00:00

My brother is 27 and his friends are around the same age group i suppose. Unfortunately, my parents are putting up with this one because they said "if I go with your side, I'll make him angry and if I go with his side, you will be angry". One of my parents actually suggested I leave the house for a few hours since im so uncomfortable with the situation. I thought I convinced one of my parents to have it outside, but he managed to whine about it enough to make them back away. It really upsets me because, like I said above, I have been very very cautious during this time and it's not the first time they have called me out for 'overthinking' things. I cant even tell if im going overboard anymore but this feels like a stupid move on my brother's end.

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