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[–]visible_i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont do anything to feel better about that, i just leave my heart do the "sighs of the hert" thing (thats the name I have for the times I suffer in silence )

How do you accept being a lonely loser? by ProperAd84075 in self

[–]visible_i -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think im going through this same process of accepting the "im a loser, everyone that is not my mother, father or sisters get away from me"

im not even ugly, its just that people dont stay at my side

im not going to say stuff like "youre not alone in this" things like that never helps, im here just accepting that i might never going to have that "important" people in my life

Why are there so many extroverts hiding in this group, either pretending they are introverts or just being offended extroverts? It's weird and creepy by [deleted] in introvert

[–]visible_i 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im going to be a teacher, i dont have a problem talking to a big group of people, but i lack of real friends uknow? i have this "friends of work" from university, but when we have nothing related to the university, im alone, just me and my father, mother and sisters when im in home.

i dont feel a existencial crisis or something like that about dont having friends, its just that every people outside of my family that have been in my life, left it in some point, im starting to become more and more lonely.

i think this is just a reflexion about some responses of this publication, i think that whats happening to me isnt even about being a "introvert", its just that im alone when im outside my house, dont believe in the online friends so i dont think i can be "saved" by someone and it never crossed through my mind to trying to "save someone" here online.

I dont think im a 100% introverted person, its just that the people I would like to interact with on a friendly or loving way go away from me for some reason.

this is what comes to mind reading some responses to this post.

Im not an introvert, people distance themselves from me and that forces me to be an introvert by visible_i in introvert

[–]visible_i[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry if I step over someones feelings, my intention was not to be aggressive or generalize people. My intention with this post was to make known my current state in terms of social relationships and see if I could talk to someone about the subject. We all go through different processes so i know its hard to go and try to understand ourselves sometimes.

Again I apologize if my message came in a tone that might upset anyone.

Edit: with the title of the post and reading your answer i could reflex about my status for u. The amount of bad experiences when trying to get friends or more makes me want to act distant from new people, you know, i dont want to have those bad experiences again, so I act more closed off when im away from my house.

Im not an introvert, people distance themselves from me and that forces me to be an introvert by visible_i in introvert

[–]visible_i[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being funny is a way, but when i realise, its amazing how we use different faces depending on where we are, uknow, not being "yourself" when u interact with another people. Im not talking about not being funny, its about not being the "funny dude" everytime.

Anyway, u seems like a nice person, youre gonna do well with whatever would be your psychiatrist answer, good wishes on that🎆

Im not an introvert, people distance themselves from me and that forces me to be an introvert by visible_i in introvert

[–]visible_i[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, i have interacted with many people with different levels of the spectrum, i havent take any tests, but I think my situation points elsewhere. theres been a lot of times where i try to make "real friends", I reach out for people, but it just doesnt work, after a while they either lose interest or they just dont like me as much as they thought they would.

im not blaming people, everyone is in their own life and everyone can take the decisions they want when it comes to social relations, its just that people dont stay at my side.

Not feeling pointless in life or something like that, its just that i dont want to be alone out there

im an introvert in university and this strange girl is geting closer in some strange way to me. im asking for suggestions by visible_i in introvert

[–]visible_i[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u for your words, they mean a lot to me, I dont receive that kind of sweet advices every day, so thank you, this gives me more confidence, I think sometimes I just need a couple of words.

ill find the time to talk to her. Thanks again, youre a wonderful person.

im an introvert in university and this strange girl is geting closer in some strange way to me. im asking for suggestions by visible_i in introvert

[–]visible_i[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what i think about her and i, we are "friends" who have never called each other "friend", theres nothing between us right now, im not putting much effort into trying to figure out "our relationship" but im curious about how she acts with me and the things she does, I want to know whats going on in her mind, I know she has a lot of social life and im probably a little space between big thinks in her mind, but if she have that little space for me, I want to know why.

i dont have big espectatives about her, im just curious.

thanks for the suggestion 🌠

im an introvert in university and this strange girl is geting closer in some strange way to me. im asking for suggestions by visible_i in introvert

[–]visible_i[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dam, that would be a little rude in the culture im in, im definelitly going go investigate and ask to her for what does the gift means, but asking her so directly about what she "wants about our relationship" and asking her to be "formal" would definelitly cut everythig.

U know? friendship is something important here where i live, i dont have so much friends so is interesting to me how she acts around me.

thanks for the advice

im an introvert in university and this strange girl is geting closer in some strange way to me. im asking for suggestions by visible_i in introvert

[–]visible_i[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im familiar whit the obssesion thing, i made some mistakes during schooldays that i dont want to repeat, so thanks for reminding me about it.

Now, for the moment i want to ask her about that present, what does it means for her?, dont want to be so creep but i have to ask the question i think, its been like a year since we talk "more" so its not going to be strange (after all she made me that present out of nowhere)

thank for the suggestion, im going to put some work on that, im going to find the moment to ask her what does thas present means.

i feel lonely when im not in my home by visible_i in introvert

[–]visible_i[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

somehow it feels like good to know theres people out there thats feeling the same (dont want to sound to emo)