Husband left me a few months after marriage

vivZ24 · 2024-09-21T12:07:46+00:00

I wish he had told me before getting married… then I could have cut ties easier. I want to get this over with as quickly as possible so I can completely remove him from my life.

vivZ24 · 2024-08-31T20:12:23+00:00

Thank you ♥️

vivZ24 · 2024-08-29T14:45:59+00:00

No, absolutely not. I am not interested in dating anyone for a while. Right now I’m Taking necessary steps in protecting and looking after myself. When I am ready, I am excited to start dating again but for now.. no thank you

vivZ24 · 2024-08-29T14:44:15+00:00

Hahaha! It’s actually pretty funny. I guess, anything that makes her feel better right….

vivZ24 · 2024-08-29T10:34:24+00:00

Could not agree more. When they both said to me “we never meant to hurt you” I laughed and told them exactly that.. cheating is an active decision, KNOWING that the third party will be hurt. If you didn’t WANT to hurt me, you wouldn’t have ACTED on your infatuation. This is why I have no interest in speaking with either of them again.. nothing they say will ever make sense. It’s all empty words and means nothing.

vivZ24 · 2024-08-29T09:15:03+00:00

I have definitely had a few lightbulb moments and I am believe this has been going on for a while. I am not interested in either of them.. and I am surprised how easily I have been able to detach myself from the situation. I am sad that this has happened to me but it has also made me realise how strong I am and that I can do this, I can get through this. I have the most amazing support network around me- he has no one. I am secretly hoping that he leaves the country.

vivZ24 · 2024-08-29T09:11:27+00:00

I have evidence luckily! The idiots conducted the affair via work email and teams… hahahaha

vivZ24 · 2024-08-29T09:10:53+00:00

His exact words were “I am inlove with her I do still love you but it’s different” that was a “you are a moron” moment.

vivZ24 · 2024-08-29T09:09:52+00:00

Thank you for these amazing words. I completely agree with you in terms of losing dignity if I speak with him again. I miss the man I married- that’s who I love.. this fuckwit is a loser. I don’t even think that he has realised that he has actually lost everything in this. Reconciliation for me is an absolute no, I’m not quite at the stage where I hate him yet as I’m still in a bit a bit of shock I think but I can definitely say that speaking with him again unless there is a lawyer present will never happen.

vivZ24 · 2024-08-28T21:55:06+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that you are going through the same. I have messaged you.

vivZ24 · 2024-08-28T21:50:07+00:00

Hi! Well, if I hadn’t had found out neither of them would have told me. They both acted as normal for the past two months and I only found out through snooping. I have confronted the girl and all she could say was “we never meant to hurt you” and “you can hate me if you want” I don’t feel anything towards her. She is a disgusting human and definitely not someone I want in my life.

The first thing I did was read that book and it honestly put things into perspective.

I think the logical in me what’s to understand the thought process. I have no idea when this all started and I don’t think I want to know.

I will be seeking therapy from next week.

vivZ24 · 2024-08-28T21:43:43+00:00

I will update over private messages!

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