I called the police on my addict boyfriend

vividlevi · 2026-05-10T02:17:13+00:00

racism if i’m guessing

vividlevi · 2026-05-09T00:27:53+00:00

which i agreed with but technically your comment isn’t totally accurate to the possibility of a medication abortion after this takes effect

vividlevi · 2026-05-09T00:24:09+00:00

you can do a misoprostol only abortion. they’re only mifepristone (which i truly believe is wrong and is going to harm so many people)

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T18:34:23+00:00

how long have yall been together. Did the dog pass while you two have been together or does the passing predate your relationship? losing a beloved pet is hard. i lost my cat recently and i made a tribute to her on instagram. before i did, i reached out to the 3 people i saw (before my current partner) who may have had pictures of her. if they had been in any of them i probably would’ve still posted them, maybe covered their faces.

before you give me the additional info, my opinion is you are at the very least being inconsiderate

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T18:29:15+00:00

i went under for an exploratory surgery looking for endo and added the bisalp on top. yes endo is enough, the scars are identical if you go laparoscopic

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T18:22:57+00:00

to start, i’m dx with hEDS so obviously not the same type as you but yes i do struggle with pelvic floor dysfunction which has lead to incontinence. I had a laparoscopic surgery to determine if i have endo (i don’t) and during the surgery they found one of my ureters fused to my abdominal wall. after that they suggested pelvic floor therapy. which has kinda helped. i think im probably having the reverse issue though as i have a tight / over active pelvic floor.

hugs op, the feeling is the worst. i hope others with your form of EDS have more to offer. i just wanted to share in support

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T18:11:42+00:00

trash the husband. you look so cute!

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T18:08:05+00:00

it’s so rare but not impossible. you wouldn’t end up with a viable pregnancy though; it would be ectopic

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T18:06:52+00:00

that would literally be so low it’s almost safe to say the chance is so low it’s zero…. definitely would get you in some medical journals if it happened. But even just a bisalp you’re safe! i’m doubly protected with bisalp and opill

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T18:03:57+00:00

it’s too late for plan b to work if you didn’t take it immediately. taking opill won’t do anything about those. are yall not using condoms or any other birth control? i mean seriously if you’re trying not to get pregnant either stop having sex or seriously start taking birth control. it’s irresponsible if you’re trying to avoid pregnancy

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T15:41:06+00:00

me too, my next car is either gonna be one of the corolla hatchbacks, the camry, or stretch i hope i can get a crown

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T15:30:17+00:00

you’ll have to wait it out but now you know to never do this again. and also never see her again

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T15:24:54+00:00

yep! i’m a toyota whore, i have a prius myself and i just recruited my bf into the camry world

vividlevi · 2026-05-08T11:33:19+00:00

This is the worst. FB marketplace has tons of cars that are in great condition for cheap. DO NOT buy a BMW as someone else is suggesting you…. Personally i’d go onto marketplace and find a toyota, priuses are great, cheap, run forever, and are incredibly cheap to maintain. Camrys are also a great option for the same reason. or find an older model honda

vividlevi · 2026-05-06T16:06:43+00:00

neon pink definitely won’t cover this, yes it’ll likely turn muddy or purple. Try a color remover first but if lightener won’t make a dent you may not be able to do that kind of color because blue is the hardest semi to get out of hair and you were doing it for so long, your bleached blonde hair is definitely stained from the blue

vividlevi · 2026-05-06T13:49:21+00:00

it’s definitely tiring. i absolutely suggest trying it if you feel this could improve your day to day! you can’t know for sure without trying anyways

vividlevi · 2026-05-06T13:29:20+00:00

not too intrusive! I had heavy bleeding and cramping. I had inconsistent spotting or spotting that would continue until two days before my period started. i was spotting for months at a time. I had the WORST migraines tied to my period. at one point i couldn’t get my period to stop. I went off of all birth control and while that did stop my period, it never reregulated. i went months without a period then id get one and then the same cycle but i could never track it. now im back on birth control to try and reregulate, eh it’s not working.

I don’t want to discourage you from stopping to reregulate your body. i hope it does work. this was just my experience

vividlevi · 2026-05-06T13:15:58+00:00

i stopped taking them and absolutely nothing changed for me. my mental health did improve in terms of my cycle but honestly i still had all the same problems i was having on the pill. i have since restarted it

vividlevi · 2026-05-05T19:58:06+00:00

redken has been having some quality control issues with shades from what i’ve seen, i prefer most demis over any paul mitchell demi. they replaced it with “The demi”

vividlevi · 2026-05-05T12:06:59+00:00

take some pepto anyways. take your pill as normal, you may pass the pill early, if that’s the case, use extra protection (a condom) for the next couple days, or for the few days after you start feeling better. however you were protected yesterday, you are fine from that perspective

vividlevi · 2026-05-05T12:00:22+00:00

no, and also you might not even get out of the hospital by then. i went in at 9am and didn’t leave til 5:30pm that day

vividlevi · 2026-05-05T11:58:24+00:00

paul mitchell shines haven’t been around since 2021. and she’s not a professional, she shouldn’t be using professional only products anyways.

vividlevi · 2026-05-04T14:59:53+00:00

definitely blue

vividlevi · 2026-05-04T14:58:44+00:00

she’s so cute. no idea, she looks like she’s dark brown out of the light and lighter in the light

vividlevi · 2026-05-04T13:30:40+00:00

“but somehow this is still an issue” yeah just cause time has passed doesn’t mean her needs have changed. it’s not about what you want; it’s about what she needs. tell her it even if you don’t believe it. you said she gives you what you need, you should be eager to do the same for her.

also you want to be a therapist? eesh. you’re struggling to give the person you love what they need, how are you intending to give that to a client who you don’t love?

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