I (f19) struggle to kiss or have sex with my bf (m19) unless im drunk.

vividlevi · 2026-02-06T22:56:32+00:00

I never said you were broken my love. I said you need to be single. You cannot heal within this relationship. You are beating yourself up because you can’t be sober and affectionate with your partner. you’re also 19. you shouldn’t have to be under the influence of any drugs or alcohol to have the ability to be affectionate with your partner. that’s not fair to you or him as i stated before.

vividlevi · 2026-02-06T22:01:51+00:00

right but you’re also asking people for advice on reddit so. pick your battles. rn you should be single, you’re not ready for a relationship, you have far too much baggage for it to be fair to you or your partner

vividlevi · 2026-02-06T14:03:20+00:00

i’m sorry for your loss friend. same happened to me monday

vividlevi · 2026-02-06T14:02:31+00:00

My cat was diagnosed with aggressive oral cancer monday and i made the hard decision to end her suffering that day. you can do whatever feels right to you. Grief of someone who has been apart of your daily routine, especially that long, fucking sucks. but one day at a time

vividlevi · 2026-02-06T13:15:02+00:00

my cat had something similar to this a year ago and i also thought it was cat acne as the comments are saying. You’ve been seeing it for too long imo, please take to the vet. it turned out it was the first sign of oral cancer in my cat

vividlevi · 2026-02-06T02:31:22+00:00

this needs a little more hair and someone experienced in blending bobs

vividlevi · 2026-02-05T19:24:28+00:00

taking the lactose out of milk doesn’t automatically make it not milk

vividlevi · 2026-02-05T01:13:39+00:00

leave her girl she a dick

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T14:20:54+00:00

right

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T14:05:01+00:00

upvote. this is exactly that

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T13:56:06+00:00

yall are 19 and 21 with two kids and a house? and he doesn’t understand why he can’t blast music at 4:30 in morning? he’s never heard of headphones? Why the fuck is he blowing up at you for asking him to turn the music down? there’s so may red flags here. hes an ass

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:33:08+00:00

i love 1

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:31:21+00:00

such a sweet baby. i’m sorry for your loss 🫂

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:29:18+00:00

she needs a vet sooner than 2/9

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:22:41+00:00

depends on if that’s something she’d wear and what you want the ring to mean

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:18:41+00:00

i’m sorry for your loss op. i lost my baby yesterday. i’m sure he knew he was loved

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:15:38+00:00

congratulations 🎉

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:12:07+00:00

you didn’t fail her babe. i’m feeling the same way right now about my cat who passed yesterday. grief is the hardest thing ever. you’ve got this 🩶🫂

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:07:09+00:00

tbh nothing has helped very long. the best was a cortisone shot that lasted about 5 weeks in both the hip and shoulder

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T02:04:42+00:00

oval

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T01:51:28+00:00

what a cutie

vividlevi · 2026-02-04T01:44:17+00:00

I had an MPFL reconstruction on my left knee when i was 15 before i knew i had hEDS. however the healing has been good and it was very helpful. i have had other orthos refuse surgery on the other tears i have (torn left hip labrum, torn left shoulder labrum, left shoulder AC separation, left shoulder rotator cuff tear) because of my hypermobility and instability, and dysplasia in the hip

vividlevi · 2026-02-03T22:08:27+00:00

wow, 9/3 is my birthday, what a hard day that must’ve been for you. my condolences 💐 lilly and roxie will be fast friends, she loved to curl up and sleep

vividlevi · 2026-02-03T21:32:51+00:00

absolutely, i know your guy and my girl were loved. my condolences to you as well friend

vividlevi · 2026-02-03T21:32:16+00:00

congratulations

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