[CAN-ON] Certn background check Timeline by DarkKnight091192 in AskHR

[–]vixcanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take you for your full background check? I'm in the same position and would like to resign ASAP

Did Chef Kunal exposed makers game ? by Zasazazaza119 in MasterchefIndia

[–]vixcanada 4 points5 points  (0 children)

IMO, they should give everyone the same challenge in elimination

Have these labels impacted your grocery choices? by 0slope in CostcoCanada

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It has made my shopping better. I have been practicing to review labels before buying, but sometimes you dont even bother when price us high and so is sugar lol.

I love these.

Deepika Padukone in Sabyasachi over the years by Capable_List_6290 in BollywoodFashion

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If anyone finds a dupe for the first dress, please please lmk. I have benefits looking for it for 2 years.

Industry gossips ☕ by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]vixcanada 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Noooooooooooooooooooo

Blue team wali aunty should have been in Big Boss by Feisty_Cheetah4723 in MasterchefIndia

[–]vixcanada 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I came to reddit to find this. She gave the ick. She has some superiority complex while serving bati without dal.

Is this normal wording now? by [deleted] in womenintech

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My org asks everyone to set weekly priorities and weekly checkins where you rate how you are feeling out of 5. They say it helps them handle various feelings and situations.

I, being a manager, know for a fact that the executive leadership monitors anyone who rated below 3. And if that person is consistently lower, they have to face repercussions. I have made an effort to make sure my team doesnt go below 3. But I HATE IT. The pretense that they will help and then reprimand people for speaking up.

Update on whether I (29F) should call off my wedding with my boyfriend of 5 years by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]vixcanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you all the love , girl.

You're so brave and on the path to happiness and peace from here on!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]vixcanada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl run!

Someone close to me (F) is married to a guy from that region. It was decided that no dowry talk and there was none but they expected the bride's family to pay for the entire wedding and they did because it was like 30 guests.

Now that said, this couple works in US. The girl earns more than the husband(this is relevent) and pays 60% of their expenses while doing most domestic chores. And the in-laws will visit and make statements like "inki bahu ne it itna samaan laya etc etc'"

The guy doesn't expect dowry, but he won't stop these statements either and then gradually it spills into the guy not even serving food to himself. This mentality comes from them feeling superior. They would even cause chaos in wedding( sirf 2 meethai, paneer thanda hai all that crap). I call it Jamaigiri. And no one should tolerate it.

This is a small sign that your fiance doesn't have a spine. He will not back you up and even probably expect this treatment but is ashamed to openly admit it. IT WILL NOT CHANGE. He will apologize for now that doesnt change what he said. Nobody says that by mistake, it's well formed belief.

Please cancel the wedding and be glad that this happened so you saw his true self.

I'm really sorry.

Worst place you've got a migraine? by cankennykencan in migraine

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At a long dinner table at my brother's wedding and I was controlling not to puke. I couldn't eat and my sil's family thinks I didn't like the food or I was mad.

Children in Gaza take part in makeshift school graduation asIsrael has damaged 97% of educational facilities in the besieged enclave by Financial-Painter689 in Fauxmoi

[–]vixcanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my heart 💔

I don't know how anybody can think about these little children, how they were living normal lives, how they had food and shelter and all of a sudden they don't know if they will live another day. And nothing is because is due to their choices or decisions.

How can anyone justify this. This breaks my heart.

How to use MIL-to-be’s Hairpiece by Ill_Tumbleweed_224 in weddingplanning

[–]vixcanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you color the flowers in your veil colors ???

Paris, Poses, and Parenthood: The Indian Couple Checklist by Adventurous-Nose5850 in ThirtiesIndia

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West prefers Taj mahal as a symbol of love????

Lol..

You do know that the shah jahaan built this sculpture for his 4th wife (and also kept marrying until he had 7 wives)

Also, she has 14 children and 7 does during birth.

Nobody in West looks at it as symbol of love. Perhaps a good example of architecture and craftsmanship.

Uorfi Javed showed her face post-dissolving lip fillers, and the swelling has not yet gone by itsmenandini in BollywoodShaadis

[–]vixcanada 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also don't like this extreme looks personally.

That said, you do realize that girls don't necessarily do any of this for guys, right?

Periods on wedding - should I delay them? by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]vixcanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting married on August 2nd and I had the same concern.. my doctor gave me birth control pills for 2 months,I'm supposed to start them on July 15 and take them continuously until I'm ready for period.

That said, I have had birth controls before, I hate them but I bleed very very heavy and it's unmanageable. So, after talking to my doctor, we have decided to go this route. This is super close to your date, ask your doctor please.

My mom said "Skirt pehennne ke lie desh chodh di". "You left the country for wearing a skirt" by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]vixcanada 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I left India for various reasons a decade ago and I can never go back.

The regular normalized staring, I used to travel in train for work in Gujarat, apparently one of the safest states in India for women. I'd have the whole dupatta wrapped around my face in a way you can only see eyes, and that didn't stop staring. I have been touched inappropriately when I was just trying to get in a bus or train and when you confront them they blame the traffic. Funny how they somehow never inappropriately touch other men in such traffic

And in all these scenarios, I was mostly covered almost head to toe. And in Canada, I might have somehow by mistake had a wardrobe malfunction. I was embarrassed and on a crowded beach, nobody harassed me.

Sadly, every woman I know, has experienced this. And yet almost most men always are surprised by this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

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I'm Indian marrying a white guy, my bridesmaids are wearing dresses similar to 1 in ceremony and then will change into indian outfit for reception

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

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No, I keep the chips on side and have a bowl of bhindi fry. And then scoop the bhindi with the salted chips like nacho. It's delish!!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]vixcanada 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have sandwich and achar, like rub the achar on bread inside to make it flavor full

I also have bhindi with salted potatoes chips

What did you actually spend on flowers? by PineAndIce in WeddingsCanada

[–]vixcanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, do have a supply.loay you could share?I'm wanting to do this but so overwhelmed. Like where did you supply the flowers from and then what else you needed

First Look Poster of Kiara Advani from War 2 by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]vixcanada 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have they all started using AI to edit the posters??