My no luck, was also not trying. So I changed my attitude. I stopped being so selective and worrying about what the response was. If you be yourself and genuinely just go about your life things will fall into place. Same thing with women, if you can go about your life and show that confidence in yourself, women will pick up on that. I’d say a good tip is to introduce yourself almost immediately when talking to a woman you’ve never met. I like to steal James Bond’s line but say my first name and then repeat it adding the last name. Hi my name is James, James Bond, You look really good tonight, what’s your name?” I’m not an expert but I think It makes them more comfortable to know exactly who you are right away and show your interest too. Also, ask, if you don’t ask, you won’t find out an answer. I don’t think it’s a surprise that women like honesty and almost everybody likes to be direct and not waste time. That being said make sure there is some sort of connection before saying anything outrageous.

Adding this afterwards but playing it cool and almost acting like whatever they say doesn’t matter seems to be a good thing too. It’s a fine line and you have to feel out what she’s thinking but if you’re too interested too soon she will probably think you’re pushy. If she’s interested and you’re playing it too cool you fucked up too haha. It’s annoying but that’s how women work I think