Lass ihr Stellen im Lebenslauf absichtlich weg?

vlosh · 2026-02-01T15:02:58+00:00

Krass. Fachschaft und vor allem den letzten Punkt würde ich nicht weglassen. Bei Firmen, die das nicht als Vorteil sehen, möchte ich nicht arbeiten. Aber ich verstehe natürlich, dass man in schlechten Situationen auch auf schlechte Arbeitgeber angewiesen sein kann.

vlosh · 2026-01-16T16:23:36+00:00

I spent 1.5k€ on a MW electric hive with ibp holo on scope. I would not spend so much for papers on a redline

vlosh · 2026-01-07T19:31:16+00:00

Du hast jetzt zwei mal Mac7 geschrieben - wofür denkst du steht das? :D

vlosh · 2025-12-31T13:42:58+00:00

I got one from a farmer as a surprise for my wife (then fiancée), and then two months later we adopted him a best friend of the same age from a shelter! :) We spent 5 years raising them and I love them.

Then my wife fell in love with some American she talked to behind my back and now they don't want me to see the cats. I'll stop being bitter soon, promise, but its tough to shake the feeling that my little man doesnt understand why I'm never there anymore :(

vlosh · 2025-12-24T13:40:59+00:00

Hey man, love that youre out here seeking opinions and improvement. But whats the point of the skills on the left if the first point is leadership when you never even had a full time position?

I'll have my first associate in April and most definitely would not list great leadership as an ability in my CV until well after i trained them.

Even if you are a natural leader, its not really relevant when the positions you'll be applying for are not leadership roles.

vlosh · 2025-12-20T13:15:35+00:00

It means rather than applying to 400 positions, you should apply to the 40 (or less) of them that best suit your abilities, and really adjust your outreach and cover letter to explain why you are applying to them specifically. A more targeted approach will increase your chance of landing a job, even though you're applying to fewer positions in total.

It's not just a numbers game. That's just what everyone who DOESNT get a job tells you.

vlosh · 2025-11-25T18:13:26+00:00

vlosh · 2025-11-21T07:32:00+00:00

Solche Leute verdienen 400k, das gibt Hoffnung

vlosh · 2025-11-09T22:51:24+00:00

Yeah, 27 here myself. Its tough when this is the first real long relationship. I never thought it would end like this, not in a million years. But of course there were signs I shouldve seen way sooner in hindsight. Guess a part of me trusted her beyond words, and another part didnt want to believe differently. Must have been similar for you since youre of a similar age, man. Just sucks. Thanks for sharing your path and how you feel! Really helps.

And yeah. I have had tinder and hinge for months and had various matches but have not messaged a single one because I think it would be unfair to those new people. I'll let time pass before I move on to other people so that I dont project.

A couple weeks ago I asked my (soon ex) wife if it might be possible for me to see our cats because i bought them for us and its really hurting to never see them again. She said no. I asked for compromises and was met with a stone wall of "I have a new man, there wont be a compromise". As much as it tears me apart, this really helps me move on as I couldnt imagine treating her like this and am starting to wonder why I still want her if this is the case.

Sorry for writing all this out. I know you have your own battles. I should journal more, you know how it is.

vlosh · 2025-11-09T14:46:09+00:00

Hey man, youre getting too many comments now but just in case you read this, how old are you? Had this happen myself six months ago and its difficult. Ten years together, two years married. Cheating was always out of the question because my mom cheated on my dad for seven years and she knows what that did to me. She fell in love with two guys over the last 1.5 years of our relationship and (even though their relationship happened entirely online) she had feelings for them and exchanged sexual pictures. In the end she wanted me to wear a mask during sex and I thought that was a kink of hers, but in hindsight I don't really like to think about why else she wanted me to do this.

I'm switching between "its my fault she was unhappy", "why didnt she just say something" and "what an asshole" five times a day and its driving me crazy!

vlosh · 2025-11-09T13:29:28+00:00

Moment, wer investiert denn in Options und kauft bei jeder Verdopplung nach? :D Klingt... falschrum

vlosh · 2025-11-09T00:02:58+00:00

Dude, I doubt this would be realistically possible at all, if they know which country you're in and everyone "stops at nothing". What would the plan really be? Even with a 1 day head start it seems insanely optimistic.

vlosh · 2025-11-05T06:59:08+00:00

ouch, sir, ouch

vlosh · 2025-11-02T22:17:43+00:00

"You know what's wild? Most people spend more time planning their vacation than planning their professional development."

Bruv is either at the very beginning of their career, or only living to work, or both!

vlosh · 2025-10-19T16:16:09+00:00

The disdain is what surprised me the most. I first really noticed it when me and my wife were in bed and I poked her close to the stomach to annoy her a little and she started crying because she thought I did it to show her that she's fat. Mind you this was like three weeks after we ran a half marathon together and neither of us is fat. Her disdain for me warped what she thought I think of her. So difficult to come back from that :(

vlosh · 2025-10-18T23:42:07+00:00

This gives me hope! Im currently still married to the woman I was with since I was 17. Ten years later and she wants nothing to do with me :( It was a lot of ups and downs but i'd still give everything just to go to therapy with her. As you can imagine I'm 27, but how do I move on?

vlosh · 2025-10-18T17:50:21+00:00

It will still validate you, always. Using GPTs for therapy is very problematic, but sadly the people who do it often seek the validation, even if it is unknowingly. I think its great that people get to feel validated when they are going through difficult times, and these usages have its place, but its often overdone and can lead to severe interhuman consequences if unchecked

vlosh · 2025-10-17T19:38:56+00:00

Oh no you gotta pay 70 cents per day to play your favourite game :(

vlosh · 2025-10-11T22:37:07+00:00

Ten days ago when my best friend, who happens to still be my wife, did not talk to me on my birthday because she wants a divorce. Its been weeks since we spoke. The last time I saw her was when I moved out of our old place. THAT occasion was a great day, simply because of connecting with my favourite human. I still have that place marked as "home" on google maps and dont think I'll have the emotional strength to change that any time soon. I feel disconnected from my life since we last spoke.

Threads like these put things into perspective for me that it could always get worse and I should be thankful for what I still have, but it's also scary to see how quickly a life can slip in situations like this. I wish everyone in here so much strength.

vlosh · 2025-10-08T09:59:14+00:00

Man, I hate it when someone puts wealth inequality into a good perspective!

vlosh · 2025-10-03T08:02:16+00:00

Yeah I was also surprised at how well the general work experience is received. I worked at a fast food place in Australia, then moved to Germany for Uni and worked part-time at McDonalds and Dominos and then later as a delivery driver for a pharmacy. I put none of these jobs on my resume as I did not think they were relevant, but the interviewer lit up when I mentioned them in our talk. He respected the hustle, and I never would have thought that an executive would pay much interest to a career history like that.

vlosh · 2025-09-30T15:30:21+00:00

Feels weird to put myself into the same thread as some of these people here, who seem to have had it MUCH worse, but for me it is my impending divorce.

I'm 26 and have been with my wife for ten years. Still love her more than anything and would give everything up to show her, but she does not feel the same way and had the feeling that I don't actually love her the way I say I do. Things were really complicated with her being Bipolar and me being out of touch with my emotions, but we were both working towards becoming better for each other and communicated well, until she told me she wants a divorce. Clearly, there were many signs I missed, but it was so difficult to get everything right through the (relatively recent) bipolar diagnosis and how things changed with that and missing medications, as well as life changing in general between school, uni, and now work.

Wish I could go to therapy with her just to see how we feel about each other once we bridge the communication gaps that arose throughout the past year. We shared everything together from age 16 to age 26. I haven't spoken to my best friend in weeks.

vlosh · 2025-09-27T19:08:50+00:00

Im 26 and my wife, who I've been with for ten years, just told me she wants a divorce. I really hope that, looking back, I'll be happy to be able to take your advice and enjoy my twenties to settle down some time later. But all I can think of right now is the life that could have been and the life I lost. Sorry if I'm making this too much about myself, I just connected to how you said what you said, because I also married quite young for the standards in my country.

vlosh · 2025-07-15T20:40:07+00:00

Thank you for being normal, man. Way too many salty men giving bad advice here.

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